ImThinkingWTF Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 ive been dating this reallllly sweet guy for about 3 weeks now. last night we went to a small party, everyone left or went to bed. me and him were still up....i fell asleep and when i woke up, he was gone. and he hasnt called at all today. Im super pissed but, he had more to drink than i did and....people dont behave the way they normally would when theyve been drinking....but still!!! i wouldnt do that to him.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 2 HUGE red flags here. 1. the fact that he left you is completely unacceptable. 2. if he was driving how could he drink to the point that you would consider that an excuse? Now some questions: Who's party was this, your friends or his? If his friends, it's even worse. From your post I made the assumption that he drove you to the party - if that is not true, the issue is different. My bottom line on this one would be - this was unacceptable, and would take a herculean effort to win me back.
Author ImThinkingWTF Posted February 18, 2008 Author Posted February 18, 2008 his friends, ive hung out with them almost as much as ive hung out with him. he lives down the street so he probably walked home. i drove myself...
witabix Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 Ignorant at worst, drunk as f**k at best, or a mixture. Not very gentlemanly I would say.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 OK if you drove yourself, that puts a slightly different spin on things. Perhaps in his drunken state he decided it would better not to wake you up, and to let you sleep it off. I don't think that would have been the correct option - but when drunk I could see it being logical. Have you spoken with him about this yet? He may have no clue that you are bothered by this. Might be best to tell him that in the future you would appreciate his not leaving you/making sure you are safe and remain so, etc. If he reacts appropriately - then let it go. If not - move on!
Jilly Bean Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 LMAO - dudes... I bet he's sleeping off his massive hangover...
xpaperxcutx Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 did he even had the decency to ask you whether you wanted to leave or not? Even a guy in a stupid drunken stupor would have enough brain cells in his noggin to do that. I say forget him.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 Him having more to drink than you isnt an excuse! If it was done to me the first thing I would think is either; a) he left with another female b) he is ignorant and drove home drunk c) a or b
Replicant Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 ive been dating this reallllly sweet guy for about 3 weeks now.....i fell asleep and when i woke up, he was gone. Sounds like he had so much to drink the booze erased the fact he was even in a relationship!
whichwayisup Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 If a guy I was dating did that to me, I would end it immediately. He left you alone, drunk and passed out. If anything, he should have slept over too seeing as it was HIS friend's place to begin with. Do not call him.
Florida Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 If a guy I was dating did that to me, I would end it immediately. He left you alone, drunk and passed out. If anything, he should have slept over too seeing as it was HIS friend's place to begin with. Do not call him. Yeah as far as he knows you could have been raped while you were sleeping because you thought he was there with you, but he wasn't. Some could even say he left you open to that, not on purpose, but still. That is not very protective of him, if a guy would do that, he is missing the male protective genes. Unacceptable.
blind_otter Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 Yeah as far as he knows you could have been raped while you were sleeping because you thought he was there with you, but he wasn't. Some could even say he left you open to that, not on purpose, but still. That is not very protective of him, if a guy would do that, he is missing the male protective genes. Unacceptable. Yeah did you ever see the movie "Kids" where the girl gets raped while she's passed out, at the end of the movie? I would break up with him. That just shows what kind of character he has.
Florida Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 Yeah did you ever see the movie "Kids" where the girl gets raped while she's passed out, at the end of the movie? I would break up with him. That just shows what kind of character he has. Worse than no charachter, more like in the negatives:sick:
witabix Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 If a guy I was dating did that to me, I would end it immediately. He left you alone, drunk and passed out. If anything, he should have slept over too seeing as it was HIS friend's place to begin with. Do not call him. As always WWIU rocks..................
amymarieca Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Well at least you saw this red flag only 3 weeks into the relationship! This is a definite sign that this guy is pretty selfish. Sure, people do things differently when they are drinking, but if I was with a guy who would get drunk enough to forget about me, I would head for the hills.
HokeyReligions Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 If a guy I was dating did that to me, I would end it immediately. He left you alone, drunk and passed out. If anything, he should have slept over too seeing as it was HIS friend's place to begin with. Do not call him. I couldn't have said it better.
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