Bemused gal Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 (edited) A month back, I did a posting wondering why a guy I was hanging with twice a week did not kiss me. I found out why... After 3 months, hanging out twice a week, a postcard from an exotic locale, phonecalls to the wee hours of the morning, and a 155 e-mails, through serendipity and a slip of the tongue by his friend, it was accidentally revealed that he had a girlfriend..which he just kind of failed to mention to me. After telling him I was angry and upset, I disappeared for 3 weeks till I stopped being angry, and I made amends and said we would just be friends. When we finally met up again..it was such a perfect day, it just made me sad. He cooked me breakfast, and we took a walk along a river..and it was just beautiful, and serene and the day seemed to last forever..but I knew it was just an illusion. So..my two questions are: (1) Why would a guy hang out with you so much and not even mention he had a girlfriend? He never touched me, so I could not even blame him for that. But there were many times he could have mentioned it, I even asked him why he did not kiss me...he could have said something then. (2) I realize I really like him. It does'nt matter that we are supposed to be just "friends" now. I like him, I've not felt so comfortable with someone for such a long time. But I want to do the right thing, and there's a girlfriend. So I am going to stop hanging out with him..but it makes me sad. I just wish it did not have to turn out this way. Edited February 18, 2008 by Bemused gal
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