overhim08 Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 had amazing sex with Ex... now he is not calling / texting ... Could it be possible that it was great for me and not so great for him? I really don't think so (from what i can tell) - but please, correct me if i'm wrong. i mean we were at it for hours. he called me baby several times (and he never calls anyone baby), kissed me on the forehead, told me "isn't this amazing, etc" during... am i dellusional? the only thing i can think of is: a - he met someone new b - it wasn't as good for him as it was for me. what else could it be? PLS HELP!!! we both agreed we don't want a relationship (before we got physical), and i'm still fine with that arrangement. but i do want more SEX! seriously, what guy in his right mind would refuse great, nsa sex? am i barking up the wrong tree here?? thanks!
norajane Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 now he is not calling / texting ... seriously, what guy in his right mind would refuse great, nsa sex? It's not NSA sex if you expect him to call and text...those are strings.
Author overhim08 Posted February 18, 2008 Author Posted February 18, 2008 thanks NoraJane, i meant no commitment. i'm just saying if i went to a restaraunt and the food was amazing i'd probably end up there again and again... so i am wondering if it was as good for him as it was for me... and if it was - why not make plans to do it again?
norajane Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 thanks NoraJane, i meant no commitment. i'm just saying if i went to a restaraunt and the food was amazing i'd probably end up there again and again... so i am wondering if it was as good for him as it was for me... and if it was - why not make plans to do it again? No commitment means he can go to any restaurant he wants to try, whenever he wants to try it. So even though he liked the place he ate at last night, he's not going to call the chef and tell her so, nor does he feel any obligation to go back the next night or the next when there are so many fine restaurants to choose from. NSA means you cannot have any expectations of him, not even for sex.
Mr. Lucky Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 NSA means you cannot have any expectations of him, not even for sex. While one might have NSA sex with a stranger, I'd question if it was even possible with an eX. And as Norajane gently pointed out, you're proving that point yourself... Mr. Lucky
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