Lovely87 Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 So, I live with my boyfriend, we'll be together 2 years in March and just moved in with each other this past Oct. Things started out fine, but then a month or so later, we hit a rut. We talked it out and we have been good for the past 1/2 month, now, I feel like I'm back where we were a few months ago. We didn't have a great Valentines Day, we ended up having a "heart to heart" serious talk about our relationship. He told me "right now" he doesn't "ever" want to get married. And he's afraid of the risk of divorce. I told him that your love/commitment/and willing to work out the relationship with that person should outweigh the importance of the "risk". Am I right about that? And the friends he hangs out with from time to time are not very respectful of women or the idea of a commited relationship and are going through a divorce and dealing with a new baby. These guys are in the 30's maybe early 40's. My boyfriend is 22. So I don't think his friends are having great influence/affect on him as far as being in a relationship. Moral of the tread is I don't know how to work this out. I do love him, and someday marry him, but he is so negative and selfish about a lot of things. One friend says I should end it, one says that I should work it out. Any ideas?
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