VP2989 Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 OK, I'm Fulltime boarding student in one of UK Schools doing A , (live in school 24/7) and iv been ther for 5 years now, these September a new Girl Joined these school we talked nothing special (bouth of us are Russian (and she dident speek very good English at that time) so we become Friends. in the next few days we ware talking via Textmesseging in i tald her that i like her, (it was fairly long conversation) but conclusion was that she is not intrested and dont like me. Few weeks l8r i found oout that she is going out with some other Guy and few more weeks l8r HE broke of with her (He gone bk to his ex) Few more weeks l8r she Started to like another Guy who is 1 year above us the spent lots of time together and she realy like him but then he sed somthing to her (somthing like:I dont want a girlfriend) she asked him u did he kissed her, and he sed: coz u Hot. So they broke UP but she still Like him.. all these time she ware rely (bad) to me and woudent talk to me unless she had to. e.g she need some help with home work e.t.c 3~5 weeks l8r Eventualy she become more friendly to me.. (not by lot, but still progress) On one of the weekends Me, Her and 3 other Girls went to 2 Pubs and then to some Club ware at the Very end She Meat some 21 yer old Guy (she is 17) who she danced with and then Even Kissed him. Now she likes him alot e.t.c (i heard from one of her friens thet these guy told her that he likes her 2 but coz of Age difrence he dont want relation and sed that she is unwanted) (that was ~3 weeks ago) It half Term now so I had to fly home (Russia) and she stayd with her Guardians in UK and 2 days ago i found out that they agreed to meat in london thses week !!! It been 5 moth since i told her that i like her and i proved these point several times. but she just dont like me (we are friends but that it) On 14 feb (valentines day) a gave her a gift on which i got a card saying: (translation) Thenk you for all the wonderfull things u do for me, everyting compresses inside me coz i know that i can not answer the same, i love u but its a difrent type of love then what u feal towards me, but we are just Friends, Good friends) What shell i do ? i need some guidence! P.S sorry for all the spelling and gramma mistakes
Cathamaroo Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 you should show her what she doesn't have. maybe you should start hanging out with other girls. not just to make her jealous, but to see what else is out there. if she sees other girls interested in you, she may become interested too. don't become a player, just a flirt! you may even find a new girl!! if she doesn't come around, then you know she is not "the one" for you. if she kind of likes you but you are too "available" she may lose interest. this may be what happened. keep your eyes open for a new girl. be yourself and the best girl should be yours.
norajane Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Well, back off and listen to what she's saying to you. She's saying she's not interested in you. You can't MAKE her become interested in you if she doesn't feel it. And while you're wasting time chasing her, you're missing out on meeting other girls who might actually like you!
directx Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Yeah, you cannot make someone like you. Time to move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea. Like puffer fish, sardines, cod, trout...
Author VP2989 Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 you should show her what she doesn't have. maybe you should start hanging out with other girls. OK. Befor these Year i never used to speak to anyone in my class unless i needed some thing or i had to coz of classwork (i had some friends in House (Boarding House )) so moust of my friends ware boys, Coz of HER i actualy start talking to All Girls in the Class (trying to get to talk to HER) and being friends with girls she talk to now I actualy talking to all of them all the time and they make my close Circle of Friends (Suprizenly i got well better of being with them then i thought i will) i keep geting invited to sneak in to Girls House at night (would never did anythin like that last year) and meat in london etc.
norajane Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 OK. Befor these Year i never used to speak to anyone in my class unless i needed some thing or i had to coz of classwork (i had some friends in House (Boarding House )) so moust of my friends ware boys, Coz of HER i actualy start talking to All Girls in the Class (trying to get to talk to HER) and being friends with girls she talk to now I actualy talking to all of them all the time and they make my close Circle of Friends (Suprizenly i got well better of being with them then i thought i will) i keep geting invited to sneak in to Girls House at night (would never did anythin like that last year) and meat in london etc. So maybe you should pay attention to those girls that are inviting you to the house and to meet up in London - clearly they like you more than she does. Why are you so stuck on this one girl?
Author VP2989 Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 1) So maybe you should pay attention to those girls that are inviting you to the house and to meet up in London 2 ) Why are you so stuck on this one girl? 1) All of them have thir boyfriends or someone alse who they like, Im just friends with them. Moreover all of them/some ot them telling HER that she shuld go out with me. (Dont ask how i know that ( long story)) not that it helps but... 2) How do i explain that ? (I love her)
mental_traveller Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Forget her. She is only interested in you as a friend, not a boyfriends. It will just be frustrating for you if you hang around, hoping for romance when none will happen. Instead, go chase girls until you find one who fancies you and wants go get it on. Once you do that, this Russian chick may become interested in you after all.
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