confuzzled12 Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 so today i hung out with this guy i like. we had planned it and everything and all my friends called it a date but i refused to call it that lol. anyways, were both pretty shy ppl. we met at the coffee shop and i was sitting kinda near the back of the shop and while i was readin a book waiting for him, he came in and sat down immediately near the front like he didnt see me (i dont get how he cudnt..). anways we talked for about an hour (abt politics, school, winterball, random stuff). he was kinda jumpy (he moved his arms around a lot, legs were kinda jumpy, and he wud randomly scratch himself lol). anyways later on we walked around the area for like an hour (we ended up walking around the same area twice lol). he wud walk with his head down a lot and we talked a lot (made jokes, asked a lot of Qs about each other, found out we had a lot of stuff in common). in the end, we decided to go, and he said he had a nice time, yet we didnt discuss hanging out again...idk whats ur outlook? in the middle of our walk, we kinda stood around and cudnt decide whetheor or not to just end the evening or keep it going. he was like "i dont know what to do lol. i cud keep walking but idk what u wanna go." like there were a lot of indecisiveness lol. then he was like "oh theres this shop that my teacher has some art in lets go bla bla" so he did keep the evening going
birdie Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 it sounds to me like he is a little shy and reserved. also even though he enjoyed your company and wanted to spend more time with you, he wanted to make sure it was also what you wanted - hence his indecisiveness. it happens all the time to me that I see someone and neither of us say we want to meet up again - but it happens anyway. It doesn't occur to me to be specific when I'm saying good-bye because it's kind of a given when I like someone and I know we are clicking.
Trimmer Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 he was like "i dont know what to do lol. i cud keep walking but idk what u wanna go." Just curious: did he pronounce it like a word: "Loal", or did he spell it out: "el oh el"... What about you... Did you have a good time, and would you want to hang out again if you had the opportunity?
Author confuzzled12 Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 yes i did enjoy my time. i felt really comfortable and in a way, protected. like when i hang out with other guys i kinda dont see them being there for me, but i kinda get the vibe from him. and he didnt say "lol" per se, but he was laughing. so i shudnt worry that he was looking at the ground a lot while talking to me and with his hands in his pocket? like even while we were talking at the coffee shop he wud look into my eyes all serious and then look away when he wud say something (whether it be funny or serious) idk he almost seemed stiff yet like he was enjoying his time
EYECANDY000 Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 Hes just very shy. it seems like he wanted to cintinue the date with you but he just wasnt sure if you wanted to. It seems like the "social outing " was going pretty well, but you two couldnt plan on what to do next. Maybe next time you should suggest something, and maybe he would start to open up a little more
Author confuzzled12 Posted February 18, 2008 Author Posted February 18, 2008 thanks for the advice. i sent him a mssg saying that i enjoyed my time and he replied with this: "ya i had a good time too. im glad we got to hang out. next time we should either go to [city a] or [city b] where there's stuff to do lol."
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