lyndsay1314 Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 my ex fiancee and i broke up 3 months ago,to make a long story short he was an alcoholic with the choice of me or the bottle he chose me but the damage was done so i ended it , he went right back to drinking and 3 weeks later had a married women with 2 kids move in with him that he met at the bar.... i won't comment on that, but he has 2 kids who i loved very much and his daughter just had her first baby in jan. so up until she was 7 months pregnant i had contact with her often even though she lived 3 hours away. well since my ex and i have split their hasn't been a period of nc for more then 4 days which i intend on changing, he calls ,texts me telling me he loves me ,still misses me you all know the story, anyway like i said we've kept in contact but shouldn't of all he is doing is stringing me along. anyway this is my question ,his daughter came up today for the weekend, he called me yesterday and asked if i wanted her to call me, i thought about it and decided that i really am not ready to see her and the baby and have them leave knowing they were going to be with the new gf for the night so i said no not this time around. well last night she called me from her house and told me she definately wanted to see me and my daughters today, so she obviously talked to him and he must of told her to call me anyway even though i had said no, she would of never known . so i told her i'd be home and to call first, well i waited all day ,no call. now i'm really upset because i don't know what to think. i was doing ok no crying or anything and tonight i just am upset thinking all kinds of things . why did he do this to me when i asked him not to ? just to rub it in my face?
jerbear Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 he is depressed and also wants to satisfy his daugther's desire. As a guy, we try not to disappoint our kids. So that could a reason why? We can use this and sometimes will use it but why deal with him when he is married?
Author lyndsay1314 Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 i'm sorry that was kind of a messed up story, he and i were engaged and i broke it off in nov. he then went to the bar and met a married women who left her husband for him, so he's not married ,just with a married women
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