tammykeogh Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 I really fancy this guy..im not to sure if he likes me though...On his profile it says he's single and lookn for a girlfriend. i went out on a date with him the other night and we kissed...but after a little while he said he wasnt into getting into a relationship..When we said goodbye he said we should definetly met up again sometime next week..i have txt him a few times,but only in a friendly way...i then txt him earlier and he neva txt back,he usually does..i hope im not annoyn him..Does anyone think im annoyn him?should i txt him again?and does he like me?...please help!
Hoffle Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 As I have learnt today, if someone says something they could mean something else, maybe he feels you are coming across too strongly and feels that by saying he doesn't want a relationship with you - you will take that as a hint to digress. He could be one of these boys who likes the company of a woman, and nothing more, but the fact he wanted to go out with you again means he must be interested, why else would he ask? My guess is he wants to take things at a slower pace, to find his feet and decide whether this is what he wants, or doesn't want. You'll have to be patient. As for him not texting you back, it could be for a number of reasons. His phone might be out of credit, or it might be broken. Maybe he was too busy to text back and will do so when he has the time. I don't think you should text him again, you will come across as being a needy and excessive and I don't know about other men, but for me that's a major negative. Just relax and wait to see if he texts back later on, or tomorrow. If he doesn't then either text him again, or just put him on hold.
Author tammykeogh Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 Thank you,I really appreciate the advice.
Ariadne Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Hmm and does he like me?...please help! Nope. It seems like he was interested before but after he went out with you he sort of desisted. Maybe he thinks you guys won't make a good match for some reason. That's why he told you the "I'm not looking for a rel" crap, and he is ignoring your texts. My take anyway. Sorry.
jerbear Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Since you already texted him; the ball is in his court. I would just let it go and make plans to move on. There are fish out there who are looking for the kiss that leads to another more serious kiss.
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