benstein25 Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 Well I found out that my ex girlfriend that I just happen to work with told my boss, that in fact she does miss me and wants to get back with me but. She doesn't know if it will work and apparently she is afraid of us going back to the way it was before. Now I kinda pleaded with her today to give us another shot and keeps saying I don't know, I don't know and she won't give me a straight answer when I ask her its kinda frustrating. She also told another co-worker the same thing that she doesn't know what to do with me and then she asks him what she should do and of course he sez "give him another chance he's a good guy" but still to no avail. Well we have been split up for almost 2 months now, we went from not talking at all and totally avoiding each other to flirting everyday at work, now she misses me and wants me back but she just doesn't know. Does anyone have some helpful advice for me on this situation or maybe something I could do or say that would help our situation and get us back together?
s_n_d Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 All you can do is wait it out. You cannot keep asking her or she might feel like its too much for her to handle and reject you. Just be really careful what you do, what you say to her etc.. Any wrong move could ruin things for this possible reconciliation. Good luck
Author benstein25 Posted February 16, 2008 Author Posted February 16, 2008 Yeah I'm not gonna ask her anymore I guess i'll just wait for her she is so worth to me
s_n_d Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 Did she breakup with you or did you breakup with her..
Author benstein25 Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 she broke up with me and her reasons were that she needed time to focus on herself and her kids which I did eventually give it to her. We were together for a year almost and this happended around the end of december. Now I tried really hard to get her back by buying her stuff and going out of my way for her to try and show that I really did care for and love her and her kids. But all that just kinda pushed her even further away from me. I even contacted her sisters to try and talk to her for me, but I guess it all just pissed her off and she did tell me at one point to screw off and to leave her alone. So I did and I wouldn't even look at her or anything for a couple of weeks, and at some point she I guess she started to miss me and now she wants me back. She doesn't really think things threw the greatest and she really can't decide things on her own without somebody telling her what she should do.
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