Lizzie60 Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 He is the fling I had this year on vacation. On day 2 (of 14 days) he hit on me... while I was getting ready to a relaxing day at the beach. He's young, 29 (but I think he's younger and he lied about his age since he knows I'm older)... he doesn't know my age but he knows my daughter is 32... anyway.. After spending lots of time with him during my 2 weeks... he said he loves me and want me to be in an exclusive relationship.. LOL He said he will not see other girls.. I laughed and I said me too, I would be 'faithful'.. yeah right .. as if I believe him.. Anyway.. the next day I was back from my trip, he called... we've been talking once or twice a week since... he called twice yesterday, I was out with my bestest friend... then he called again this morning.. I didn't pick up the phone, I was in bed... he left a message saying he misses me and he wants to hear my voice.. blablabla.. I called him back.. .he's disappointed I don't call more often.. I told him I am going back in 3 weeks... He's all excited... he then talk Spanish to a guy.. he then tells me he just cancelled a 3-day baseball tournament because it fell on the same week I'm coming down. He asked me where I was last night, when I said I went out with a girlfriend, he asked me if I had kissed a guy.. I laughed.. said no.. he then said, he would kill me if I do... LOL He's such a 'bébé lala'. I, for the first time in my life, is not sure whether this guy is 'serious' or just 'fooling' around with me.. the thing is he doesn't have any money and he's spending quite a bit on long distance calls. No real questions here.. just curious about him..
Letranger Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 He sounds awfully clingy or really really taken with you. Falling in love after TWO WEEKS? I bet he doesn't have much experience with women and you just flipped his switch into overdrive where he is out of control emotionally. My guess
Author Lizzie60 Posted February 16, 2008 Author Posted February 16, 2008 He sounds awfully clingy or really really taken with you. Falling in love after TWO WEEKS? I bet he doesn't have much experience with women and you just flipped his switch into overdrive where he is out of control emotionally. My guess Yes I have my doubts too about the 'falling in love' after only 2 weeks... He was strange during the 2 weeks.. he wanted me to be sooo jealous of him.. it was insane... he would tell me that the night before he had girls over..blablabla.. I was just laughing and saying 'good for you' ... Then one day, while driving to town, to play pool.. he told me he was married.. LOL... then the next day he said he just wanted me to be jealous.. but I am not the jealous type.. I told him he could have all the girls he wants.. I have a feeling he's 'playing' but I find that he's spending a lot of money just to play... I asked him what he wanted me to bring him (gifts).. he said he wanted nothing.. just me.. he then started to talk dirty.. he can't wait to do this and this to me.... lol ... I guess he was horny..
norajane Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 Possessive latin american man...they tend to be possessive of 'their' women. I wouldn't expect you'd enjoy that since it's not your thing, though.
Author Lizzie60 Posted February 16, 2008 Author Posted February 16, 2008 Possessive latin american man...they tend to be possessive of 'their' women. I wouldn't expect you'd enjoy that since it's not your thing, though. No.. I don't really enjoy that.. but since he's thousand of miles away I'm not too concerned about my safety.. but he said on a few occasions that he would kill me.. he said it again this morning... lol They are possessive of their women but they are also cheating on all of them..
norajane Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 They are possessive of their women but they are also cheating on all of them.. Oh yes! Double standard all the way.
Art_Critic Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 What do you get from the guy to continue this ?.. If he really is serious about harming you then some distance isn't going to stop him.. Why not put him in his place and tell him that there will be no committed relationship between you both ? you will see from his reaction what to expect in the future from him.. Personally if anybody that I was with told me that they would kill me if I did something and I couldn't tell if they were serious or not then it would spook me... I think he was trying to muscle you...
Author Lizzie60 Posted February 16, 2008 Author Posted February 16, 2008 What do you get from the guy to continue this ?.. If he really is serious about harming you then some distance isn't going to stop him.. Why not put him in his place and tell him that there will be no committed relationship between you both ? you will see from his reaction what to expect in the future from him.. Personally if anybody that I was with told me that they would kill me if I did something and I couldn't tell if they were serious or not then it would spook me... I think he was trying to muscle you... Yes I think he's trying to be the 'big muscle guy' ... but I'm not scared..
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