hopenfaith Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 It will be 3 months of NC with my ex on feb. 25. We dated off and on for 3 years and after thanksgiving he said that he thought we shouldn't hang out for a while so that people would get the picture that we were no longer together (long story which is outlined in another thread) and since that day we really haven't been in contact. i still love him very much and want to be with him ,but i've realized that we both needed time apart. Although I've had MANY sleepless nights and shed MANY tears, i know this separation is for the best. The thing is, this weekend a group of my girlfriends from college are in town and we are schedule to go clubbing at a bar that is literally across from my ex's house, plus we are also going to another club that he and his roommates frequently go. I know i could just not go out with my girls (these outings are set in stone) but this is our special weekend retreat which has been planned for months so i feel like i should go. Does any one have any advice or encouraging words about how to deal with bumping/seeing an ex whom you haven't spoken to in forever esp. when you are still very much in love with them and want them back badly? I'm trying to give him his space and not go to places he frequents. I know his misses me (I was told this from a very creditable source) but i'm afraid all hope may be lost. I also really don't want to have a panic attack if i see him...esp. if he is with another girl...please help!!!
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