Miyamoto Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 My ex loved me. What if no one ever loves me again? I want to hear stories of people who have been here and seen the light at the end of the tunnel (found someone else that loved them) I know I'm not the only one with this problem.
Author Miyamoto Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 You all have given me your answer by your silence...you have told me that it is a cold, cruel world and no matter how much love you put out there, advice, answering other ppls threads, you can't expect love back. People will view my pain but not try to help me. So what must I do? I will love myself!! Thank you, thank you for your coldhearted, evil silence, for from it has come the wisdom of God. You @#%(@#&$) @#*$ %)@*#%) @*#)%*@#)$s :laugh::cool:
kymberann Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Sometimes when awful things happen we immediately think the worst! Right now you may not feel lovable but when the dust settles, you will see, there is bigger and better waiting! I've been there. We all have in one way or another. Just remember you attract what you put out there!
MattyTee Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 Sometimes when awful things happen we immediately think the worst! Right now you may not feel lovable but when the dust settles, you will see, there is bigger and better waiting! I've been there. We all have in one way or another. Just remember you attract what you put out there! This is very true! If you want a story of finding love again then I can oblige. I was with my first girlfriend for 8 years, we were engaged and I was due to move to live with her in January. Last August she broke up with me. I went through all the pain and suffering that we see so often on here. I begged, I pleaded, I did a lot of things 'wrong'. At one point I even called the Samaritans because I felt I couldn't cope. I went through heartache, I dragged myself through being treated badly, I even tried being 'friends'. Nothing worked until I finally saw that all of this was not about her, it was about me. Finally when I began to focus on myself instead of her, when I began to really heal and feel good being alone. Well I met someone. I don't know where it's going yet, but it's shown me that very unexpected things can happen when you finally let go and start focusing on you Let the grief take it's course. Let the sadness be sad ... but remember, life is unexpected so open that heart, accept what has happened and remember ... anything can happen
imagonnacry Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 Of course you will be loved again. Heck, even guys in prison find love and get married. You can't expect to find another right away, if you did you wouldn't appreciate her anyway, would you? It just wouldn't be fair to the new gf if you "found" her while you are still smarting from the first breakup. Take the time to make new friends and all that happy horsecrap. Somebody for you is out there right now, probably crying over her own breakup...when you both heal, things will work. Have faith in that. How many people break up and NEVER find another? Few, if any. Can you name one? I had a great aunt who got divorced and supposedly never as much as kissed another man, but I think she had been abused by her ex and lived in fear of men thereafter. She was a lovely lady who adored fishing, I still find it hard to believe that no man was ever attracted to her in over 40 years, do you?
Author Miyamoto Posted February 18, 2008 Author Posted February 18, 2008 I want to thank you all for your replies. Everybody is really helping me on this board, and I wanna say that even though my language is harsh sometimes, it's (mostly) jokes and I hope that some stuff I've said in other posts has helped somebody.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 18, 2008 Posted February 18, 2008 You will find love, I am sure that everyone gets many chances for love and happiness in their lifetimes. Just be open and receptive to accepting it. Be the best you, you can be and that will allow you to find the best for you.
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