overhim08 Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Hi everyone, happy post Valentine's day! ) i slept with my ex a little while ago and (it felt great for both of us), or so i thought, but ever since then he's been acting strange. we mainly communicate via texts and when i send him a text i get selective and 1 word answers...WTF? i know i shouldn't be overanalyzing, but, truthfully, i want more (sex). i am not trying to get on his case or anything else. or start a relationship. could it be that he didn't enjoy it? (it sure didn't seem that way at the time...) or met someone else? either way shouldn't he just tell me? hey - i'm not interested or hey - i'm seeing someone else i just met so can't see you now... this is pretty frustrating... Please help... Thank you all!
Ruby Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 He is blowing you off You deserve more than to be used for sex
Confused_Lover4 Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 I had a very similar experience too! With my Ex. we had sex and both agreed it was great but then he stoped talking to me. I'm still rying to figure him out but he contacted me recently too. So I think he was using me for sex or he couldn't find no one else. Its pathetic and we deserve WAY better. Girl forget get out him! You deserve way better!
Author overhim08 Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 i just don't get it. we were together a year when we were together and loved each other deeply (or so i thought..) i thought there was a level of mutual respect but i guess i was wrong. regardless, how hard is it to say "i met someone" or "i am not interested" - i would then write him off without a question... but the fact that he's not saying anything is really frustrating... is this a control thing? or is he trying to get me angry/ hurt me?
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