Nintenja Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Yeah, there is a girl I'm kind of becoming fond of, while I have given subtly hints that I like her, I'm kind of tired of doing that. I want to kind of just tell her I like her, but not in a mushy guts spilling way, just like "hey, I kind of like you" ya know? I don't know if I should do this or keep playing games. Suggestions please?
directx Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Ask for her phone number or email? I wouldn't just blurt out you like her. Just talk to her and she'll figure it out if you be yourself.
Lucasarts Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 you could always try holding her hand if you're too shy/hesitant to kiss her
Author Nintenja Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 (edited) Eh, I guess, I know kissing would be a bad idea, I don't know her THAT well... I'm not really sure what I want to do, my friends tell me to just tell her that way there isn't really any confusion. But others say that telling her destroys the mystery, but I mean I guess it doesn't really matter in the end. I'm have the feeling she may know now, because someone she talks to was looking at me like she knew that I liked her (I was asking her about her next class as we were leaving), so I'm guessing it's pretty obvious by now. I also have the feeling she likes me too, she was acting REALLY weird in class when we were working together, she is a very intelligent girl who can usually catch on to things pretty good, but she was goofing up pretty badly that day, even worse than me. And sometimes I just randomly get nervous when I talk to her and she will kind of get nervous with me and mimic me in what appears to be an unintentional fashion (despite her being very outgoing). My main goal in this was that I was just wanting to confirm the obvious so we can both stop this little game that's going on and actually go out and do something together sometime. If she doesn't like me exactly the same way, I don't really care, she still makes a cool friend, I'm not emotionally attached to her or anything , as I don't do her favors or give her gifts for no reason, she helps ME actually. So I shouldn't do this? Edited February 15, 2008 by Nintenja
Miyamoto Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 You have to fool chicks into liking you. Get her drunk.
Author Nintenja Posted February 16, 2008 Author Posted February 16, 2008 Nah, not my style... But thanks for the advice any way Miyamoto.
LikesMeNot Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 You have to fool chicks into liking you. Get her drunk. Dumb chicken, you have no social conscience Miyamoto. That's probably why you have any excitement in your like. Nintenja: Don't worry, almost everyone experiences the awkward phase in which many people lose hope. don't give up, you can do it!
Hoffle Posted February 16, 2008 Posted February 16, 2008 I'm in a similar boat to you, but my shyness and coyness is pretty senseless, so I'm still trying to pluck up the courage to ask her for her contact details. I believe this is the best place to start, get to know her a bit and see if she likes me. However if you're ignorant to hints like me, you have to ask your friends.
Mahatma Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Um do not just tell her upfront you like her. This always yeilds negative results and girls see it as moving too fast. Just let it go a little bit longer until you KNOW she likes you.
Author Nintenja Posted February 17, 2008 Author Posted February 17, 2008 Well, I've taken some time to gather my ideas and I think I know what I'll do, it'll be a pretty light mood actually. Thanks everyone!
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