hippylove9399 Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 Hi, I`m 20 yrs old and I need someone`s advice asap! I`ve been dating this guy from work for about a month now. He calls me everyday after work and asks how I`m doing. He usually calls me at night before bed too. The problem is he doesn`t want anyone in work to know and when we are working he totally ignores me, but talks to other girls. He won`t come and pick me up, because he said his car is a piece of **** and it`ll break down, but he could go bowling and to work with it. He called me last night and said we should go to the same deserted spot where we went on our last date. I don`t know if he wants just sex. I keep asking him that and he gets super mad and says this is why we aren`t in a relationship yet, because you don`t trust me. My intuition tells me not to trust him. He also refuses to meet my parents. He never compliments me and I confronted him and he said thats not his thing. Should I go on a date with me tonight and come out feeling used or regret it? I really like him, but I`m not sure what to do and I`m going insane! Then, there is this other really good side to him. The other night he called me to see how I was doing, and then 10 minutes later asked if I could come pick him up, I told him no and he said yeah whatever. Told him to call me after 9 and he never did. I have never been in a situation like this before. I am used to having guys kiss my ass. Seriously, what do u guys think of this? Oh yeah and then he was having a party at his house and said it was only for the guys, but when I asked if I could come over, he said he never has ppl over. I said if your really serious about me, then why don`t you introduce me to your parents and he said, none of my friends ever meet my parents. There are some cracks in the things he says. Please help!!! Thanks for the advice in advance...
starlite Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 I didnt even have to finish reading your post to come to a decision which is DUMP him!!!!!!!! In the beginning of a relationship is the time to be on your best behavior and try to impress, if he already stinks when it comes to everything then imaging 6 months from now, or worse, years from now. You want (well, I assume you want) someone who wants to impress you and treat you well. Find someone who has it together who wants to 'woo' you. I am 25, when I was 20 I allowed losers like this to get away with it and they never changed...but my standards have! And always listen to your gut, if something feels off, it usually is. Good luck hun!
melodymatters Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 Dump him. He's not treating you like somone he's dating, he's treating you like a side pice of a**. I don't mean to sound harsh, but there are NO good signs here, just bad. People will treat you how you LET yourself be treated. Move on and find a guy who is proud of you, and does nice things to make you happy. This guy wants sex and rides.
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