loveinlife Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Just wanted to post something, feel kinda lonely with this holiday and i don't have anyone special to hang out with. sigh. anyone on the same boat? Link to post Share on other sites
matt367 Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Just wanted to post something, feel kinda lonely with this holiday and i don't have anyone special to hang out with. sigh. anyone on the same boat? I'm in the same boat. My ex the girl I love is with another guy so this valentines day sucks. We"ll get through it but in fact my ex just broke nc after a week saying she missed me WTF? I told her to call when shes ready to date me again if ever. So I think I'm going to volunteer tommorow and help someone instead of thinking about the ex.feel better and cheer up its a fake holiday anyway Link to post Share on other sites
Elena62 Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Just wanted to post something, feel kinda lonely with this holiday and i don't have anyone special to hang out with. sigh. anyone on the same boat? Yep in the same boat here, and it sucks! It's just another day (that's what I keep telling myself. Hang in there! Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveinlife Posted February 14, 2008 Author Share Posted February 14, 2008 thanks guys, im trying to hang in there. I was hoping that i can spend some special moments with someone i love, but nothing in the air.. ex said she is too busy for anything due to school.. her and i have been talking for awhile, she doesnt want to get back with me bc i flaked on her with another girl eventhough was the dumper when i was going out with her. i wish i won the lottery.. =) Link to post Share on other sites
woodthorpe Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 It's just another day....(keep saying it). And at least we won't have to go on a diet after eating all those chocolates LOL. Keep posting loveinlife there are lots of us in the same boat here - we can all be nice to each other and get through this silly red rose, belgian chocolate filled day. xx Link to post Share on other sites
ElvenPriestess Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I'm alone, very alone, no one home but me, no flowers for v-day or anything. But I have school work to keep me company. And music of course. So yes, I'm feeling what you're feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Count me in. I have my exH and my daughter here with me (family) but no romantic interest in my life. Luckily I will not be out today, so I won't be bombarded with all the romance in the air. Link to post Share on other sites
ANGUISHEDandBROKEN Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Why so hung up on Valentines? Its just another consumer happy day that was invented so that the economy could move a bit. Love chooses no day, and needs not a special day to be remembered. F**k it.... They should create a Sex Day or maybe a Free Love day...... Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I sent something earlier to a ex-valentine. Good response, both taking steps to work things out. Oh well... Going to take my caretakers / handlers out this weekend (parents, grandparents, family ) out and just show them that I care. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Why so hung up on Valentines? Its just another consumer happy day that was invented so that the economy could move a bit. Love chooses no day, and needs not a special day to be remembered. F**k it.... They should create a Sex Day or maybe a Free Love day...... I agree with your AandB. And one more thing... I wonder how Sex Day would be like? Link to post Share on other sites
ElvenPriestess Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I agree with your AandB. And one more thing... I wonder how Sex Day would be like? It would be fantastic. Behind closed doors, then the next day all the rave about who did what. Sign me up! lol Link to post Share on other sites
Dear Lady Disdain Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I'm sailing with you dear... I was so sad when I got home to find the postbox empty...ugh! x Link to post Share on other sites
sandflea Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 F**k it.... They should create a Sex Day or maybe a Free Love day...... You nailed it AB! No drama, no crazies, no sadness and no strings. Just some good old not so clean fun. I'm in! Link to post Share on other sites
Dear Lady Disdain Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Luckily I only saw one guy with a bunch of flowers this morning...x Link to post Share on other sites
s_n_d Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 We're all in the same boat as you. Hang in there..Today is the true test for all of us doing NC and everyone else too. Good luck:) Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 It would be fantastic. Behind closed doors, then the next day all the rave about who did what. Sign me up! lol I think Sex Day will not leave the singles out. I don't they will feel like they do during V.Day! I wonder if Hallmark will come out with Sex Day greeting cards. "Wanna be my Sex Day partner?" and when you open up the card - there's pop up of man and woman doing their thing! Link to post Share on other sites
ElvenPriestess Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I think Sex Day will not leave the singles out. "Wanna be my Sex Day partner?" and when you open up the card - there's pop up of man and woman doing their thing! That's golden, ALL people are able to celebrate! And the card idea. Love it! Link to post Share on other sites
sandflea Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Generally speaking - I think we'd see the popularity of the day soar! Forget cupid and hearts - give me raspberry lube and lingerie. Care to try for round 4?! LOL! At least we'd all get a good night's sleep afterwards. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 That's golden, ALL people are able to celebrate! And the card idea. Love it! I knew you would love it, EP! Forget cupid and hearts - give me raspberry lube and lingerie. At least we'd all get a good night's sleep afterwards. LOL - yes that and good sleep! Yaayyy!! Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I knew you would love it, EP! LOL - yes that and good sleep! Yaayyy!! Oh that super sleep after a great night.... been a little while since I slept that well.. Been just over a year since my ex wife left me... so this V-Day is nothing compared to last year... Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Can I join the party? The Anti-Valentines Day party!!!! Nothing has come my way and nothing will. Surprisingly I don't even have hope that he will send something. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Just wanted to post something, feel kinda lonely with this holiday and i don't have anyone special to hang out with. sigh. anyone on the same boat? Yes, I'm single too. The guy I love is with someone else. So... I decided to take the day off from work (hope I don't get in serious trouble for that) and make it a special day for my son. I'm going to clean his room nice, make him a wonderful lunch, take him shopping for his gf, and drive him to his gf's house. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Tom12k Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Yeah this day does suck but your in no way in your own boat. There isnt a ferry large enough to house everyone included. My ex will be home in about 30 mins so thats going to be tough but i think shes going out. Cold beer, pizza and the simpsons movie for me tonight. Cheaper than all these fad's anyway. Anyone else in? Link to post Share on other sites
Issues & tissues Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 Count me in. Just got in from work. Had hardly notice what day of the week it was yet alone which day of the year. Ex called one hour ago. Wants to come round and pick up more stuff. Told him he'd better be quick as I have a "hot" date tonight. Soothing bath oils. Check. Candles. Check. Baileys on the rocks. Check. 1 Terry's Chocolate Orange. Check. Bridget Jones' Diary DVD Boxset. Check Best Valentine's Day ever - just me, myself and I! Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I think Sex Day will not leave the singles out. I don't they will feel like they do during V.Day! I wonder if Hallmark will come out with Sex Day greeting cards. "Wanna be my Sex Day partner?" and when you open up the card - there's pop up of man and woman doing their thing! Y'all haven't shopped for Valentine's Day cards, lately, have you? They already have those pop ups! And the toy store near my house has all kinds of sale specials on lubes and, er, toys. Last year when I had a lover, I wrote him a VDay porn story, and sent parts of it to him all day long with a promise to act it out when we got together that night. And isn't this the time that guys buy tons of lingerie for their girls? Basically, Valentine's Day IS Sex Day for a lot of people. It's all what you make of it! Link to post Share on other sites
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