jon6567 Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 (edited) So I was wondering if someone could give me some advice. There is this girl that i knew for a while when i first met her she seemed really into me... we always went to school dances together and stuff and hung out a couple times. I eventually got her phone number but i didnt have the nerve to call her. We always talk on instant messenging and myspace. Finally after a couple of months i told her i really like her and she said she liked me too. she said we should go out sometime and do something. i said ok. I never called her we still talked in school and on the internet. During the summer between school years we didnt talk much. i still liked her though but she moved on a started dating other guys. Nothing of which lasted very long. The next school year started and we started seeing each more often at school, flirting, and such. Again she said we should hang out and again it never happened. Then as fate would have it the day i was going to set up a date with, i was talking to her and she said her and this guy were going out. I confessed all my feelings to her and she said that she wasnt goin to break up with him. She was going to see how things work out with him. Well they went out with each other for probably over year and they broke up just recently. After her break up she began flirting with me a lot. We started to talk on the phone for like hours at a time. She compared me to her ex saying things that were better about me then him. She said we should go to a restaurant together. i said o.k. There is this dance coming up in our school and i asked her to it. She asked me is it gonna be like a date. I said yes. She said she just wanted to be friends and was sorry for leading me on. She said that she used to have feelings for me but then she went out with that other guy and they faded away but they still might come back and that she still isnt over her breakup and just wants a friend out of me. she flirts with me a lot and i catch her looking at me often. but we rarely talk in school. also she has a couple guy friends but they like grew up with her. she didnt know her boyfriend long before they started dating. my problem is that i dont want to just be her friend i will feel not liked because i like her a girlfriend not "just a friend". So my question is: Does it sound like she likes me as more then a friend but just isn't over her breakup, or does she just want to be friends? Also if i do find out that she eventually would go out with me, how long should i wait after the break-up to ask her? Edited February 14, 2008 by jon6567
Bethgirl13 Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Well to me it seems like she does still like you but maybe its not enough yet It sounds like she just wants some space and hang out with her friends so thats what you need to be be a supporting friend to her and you never know once shes gotten over that other guy she might like you again just give it time
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