EllaDerSpin Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 Serendip, it sounds to me that these messages are partly her way of apologising in the only way she knows how. Perhaps it would be more helpful for you to try to accept them as such in your mind only, and then really have no contact. What she says to you will not be satisfactory until you have emotionally healed completely and there will be nothing she can say that will magically heal you. Your healing is in your own hands, and contact with her is clearly not the answer. It sounds as though she feels the need to have you forgive her aswell for her own healing. If you look to each other for this you will be at a stalemate situation because neither of you seems able to tell the other what he/she wants to hear.
Author serendip Posted February 25, 2008 Author Posted February 25, 2008 This weekend I went out on a date and it was good...but I found myself missing the ex for some reason. It's the first time I have actually miss her in months. I guess I really miss 'us' or the way we used to be(I know we aren't the same people anymore)...I don't know what to make of it. I guess I know it's completely over for good...there's no more 'special dates' for us and no reason for us to contact each other. It's kind of sad...that's it for us...it's over...and there's no turning back. We are both moving on with our lives and whatever beauty we once had is gone.
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