Kelso Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Hey guys - I guess this is the millionth letter regarding this subject in this forum, but still I'm gonna let go. I'm 24 years old and she's two years younger than I am. We go to the same college and that's where it started. I didn't note her until late last semester. I though she was cute and nice and all, but I thought she was shy so I didn't wanna rush in and make her scared. She's a nice "good" girl which I think might become a long term material. Anyway, I've been receiving all these mixed signals from her. a) She's a cute girl, and cute girls get hit on a lot. We've been in the same club many times and I've seen many guys come talk to her, but she doesn't seem interested. Always crosses her legs and hands and turns them into the opposite direction from the guys. However she's always friendly when I talk to her. b) When I meet her and the hallways in our school, I always get a smile and a hi from her. c) We were at a school thing few days ago and had both been drinking. There was this photographer present and he was taking a picture of her friend. When she saw the photographer she smiled to me and put her arms around my shoulder for a photo. That night ended with her offering me to share a cab with her and her friend ... but I was going the opposite direction. So it ended with a kiss on her cheek. d) Once I was kidding and asked her "whats your score in a school thing" It's thing that the "nerds" at our school play but she recognized that I was just being sarcastic and laughed. Few days later she walked past my table at the library and said: "should you not be studying, not playing this thing" and smiled. Off course I was not playing. Well, I've been getting a lot of positive signals, but there are some negative too. Maybe no biggies, it's just more like when I'm sitting in the lunchroom at school she usually sits with her back faced against me. It's not just sometimes, it's always. And sits there with her friends and I sit with mine. She seldom comes and talk to me in the lunchroom, but on the other hand so do I. Well, I'm probably just over analyzing, just like I promised my self last time that I would never do again. But what do you guys think I should do? Should I ask her out right after our midterms? Should I wait longer and get to know her better. And of course there is the friends zone where noone wants to be. Do you guys have any ideas in how I can express my interests in her without making a fool of myself?? And one thing, if and when I finally will ask her out ... I need first date ideas. Thank you all very much in advance, I'm gonna do my macroeconomics project and I will be reloading LS Any inputs will be appreciated. Thanks again
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 I think you should ask her out before she gets snatched up by someone else. It sounds like she's kind of into you, but you'll never know if you don't act on it.
tanbark813 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 There's no need to keep waiting. It sounds like she's probably interested. The next time you see her just ask for out for some day. Good: "So do you want to get dinner Thursday night?" Bad: "So do you want to do something sometime?" Or you can get coffee, go to a pub, go shoot pool, go bowling, etc... It doesn't really matter as long as you can converse. And make sure you kiss her on the date.
SeraBella Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Ask her out. What you've said here makes it seem like there's interest there. Girls always overanalyze and she could be questioning the same things from you. I agree with tanbark, ask her out with a specific question...don't say something generic like "something sometime" because it's not usually taken seriously. Good luck!
Author Kelso Posted February 12, 2008 Author Posted February 12, 2008 I know you guys are right, I just needed some assurance. I'm gonna do it in about two weeks time. We're going through series of tests at our school right now ... so I'm gonna wait until after the tests... I was gonna ask all the LS girls about their dream date here ... but I guess I'll start a new thread ... interesting topic in my opinion...
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