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You're not in enough pain yet. You NEED to be pitchforked.

 

Men don't grow up until they hit rock bottom.

 

Too bad you can't try seducing us in person. We're a pretty tough bunch. We'd make you suffer properly!

 

You'd thank us later, once your heart grew back.

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No, because you are sticking your pitchfork in my pain.

 

I thought we were here to help each other.

 

I like that, it is sweet.

 

It would appear that perhaps you enjoy the pain of not knowing what you want. Harboring the resentment you have against your own manufactured angst and projecting it onto others in forms of insults or as a way to excuse further mistreatment of those who attempt to care about you.

 

Not many girls want some indecisive angry guy for very long. So sure, she might be over it.

 

I might be wrong but do you value her more since she has proven that she doesn't really need or want you around?

 

No, you should not contact her.

 

What you can do is try to figure out why you have the pattern that you do or why you have the feelings that you do. Where it stems from and what you ultimately want in a relationship. If you can get a grasp on that then your relationships may improve.

 

*removes pitchfork and releases you from your pain*

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I second Jame and UP.I am not into being insulted.....and neither are most women. Good luck with that.

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Excellent attempt at amateur psychology; alas, it is just that, amateur.

 

I do not like not knowing what I want. If you knew anything about the name I chose, you would know it's derived from Miyamoto Musashi, one of the most dedicated people who ever lived. You cannot hope to follow his philosophy without complete singularity of purpose. So no, I do not ENJOY being this way.

 

I'm only angry when people make me that way. It doesn't permeate my existence. Daisies made me angry by behaving the same way my ex did and compounding the behavior when she saw it hit a nerve.

 

You will notice at the top of the post I decided already that I would not contact her. I don't need you to tell me that, and yes, you are wrong, that is not the reason I value her more.

 

My behavior is not a pattern. In fact, this is my first relationship. I have not had time to develop patterns.

 

Any other observations?

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You're not in enough pain yet. You NEED to be pitchforked.

 

Men don't grow up until they hit rock bottom.

 

Too bad you can't try seducing us in person. We're a pretty tough bunch. We'd make you suffer properly!

 

You'd thank us later, once your heart grew back.

 

GIRL POWER! Make all men suffer. That's the spirit!

 

And I'd have you eating out of my hand, ladies.

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Excellent attempt at amateur psychology; alas, it is just that, amateur.

 

I do not like not knowing what I want. If you knew anything about the name I chose, you would know it's derived from Miyamoto Musashi, one of the most dedicated people who ever lived. You cannot hope to follow his philosophy without complete singularity of purpose. So no, I do not ENJOY being this way.

 

I'm only angry when people make me that way. It doesn't permeate my existence. Daisies made me angry by behaving the same way my ex did and compounding the behavior when she saw it hit a nerve.

 

You will notice at the top of the post I decided already that I would not contact her. I don't need you to tell me that, and yes, you are wrong, that is not the reason I value her more.

 

My behavior is not a pattern. In fact, this is my first relationship. I have not had time to develop patterns.

 

Any other observations?

 

 

I "BEHAVED" in a way that made you angry??? Excuse me?? You don't even know me. I was joking around with you and that made you angry???

Welll I guess it's a good thing I wasn't PMS'ing.God help me if I were...

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GIRL POWER! Make all men suffer. That's the spirit!

 

And I'd have you eating out of my hand, ladies.

 

 

AND THIS definetly made me LMAO....

Are you SURE you're 27???

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We're all in various states of dishevelment and loss here, so I don't know why you would exascerbate the situation when you saw it was bothering me... I'm in a lot of pain just like you guys, and I didn't want to start crap, I just wanted some answers... I just wasn't in the mood to get played with.

 

You saw that I needed an answer, and you held out just to tease me. You just didn't know that I was this bad. Which is not your fault, but now you know. Hey, my female cousin did the same thing. I wrote her, told her the whole situation and begged for her advice, and she hasn't even thrown me a scrap yet.

 

Really the only woman who has ever had my back in life has been my mom. She's helping me through this with no reservations. And she's also giving me major insights as to how women think about this whole thing. I don't feel sorry for any of you.

 

I've been insulted by all of you here, so don't try to throw me to the wolves.

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Well lashing out at complete strangers is not going to gain you ANY fans or advice. You need to lash out at your source of pain....I have never done a thing to you.I don't even know you enough to insult you...and if I did I still couldn't be bothered. I am done here.

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Dude,

 

I was trying to give you an honest perspective and insightful advice. Amateur, of course, and based on the limited amount of information you have posted. I apologize if you were offended by my statements.

 

If you can tone down the sensitivity and honestly ask what it is that you want opinions on then ask away.

 

I wield my pitchfork with a kind hand.

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Good, Daisies, be done. How old are YOU?

 

Underpants, I will be nice to people who are nice to me, but I don't care just because I'm a guy I can't get a little sensitive sometimes.

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LOL...old enough to not let comments from strangers on a message board get me upset. Or to take out my frustrations on people who don't deserve it. Oh wait...nevermind.That's about maturity. Age has nothing to do with it.

 

Anyway..I don't even know what I said to "anger" you... but if I was out of line, I do apologize. My intention was not to cause you any more pain..but to try to lighten the mood.

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Ummm...so how old are you?

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Since I have to post more than 10 letters....I'm 31.

That IS a dumb rule.

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I thought you were done.

 

What if I told you I loved you? Would you have an emotional affair with me? :bunny::love::bunny:

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This post is hilarious because I started it to try to help people be good to their exs, and help them cope, and then it just turned into a big flamefest... rotflmao

 

 

I want to ask Jane to prom :love:

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I thought you were done.

 

What if I told you I loved you? Would you have an emotional affair with me? :bunny::love::bunny:

 

 

You asked me a question ....I answered.

Emotional affairs are over rated ;) I prefer the real deal.

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What if I told you you're hot? Wanna do the real deal? Miss Sassy 31 year old?

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Hmmm considering you have never seen me to say I am hot....

probably not. It takes more than a few frilly words to impress me :p

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Far be it from me to try to impress you. What you see is what you get. ;)

 

Maybe I think hotness is based on more than physical beauty...you should have gathered this at least, Miss 31...

 

And I wouldn't even know what "frilly" means if I tried. All my words are forceful. Authoritative. Virile. Focused. Poignant.

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Far be it from me to try to impress you. What you see is what you get. ;)

 

Maybe I think hotness is based on more than physical beauty...you should have gathered this at least, Miss 31...

 

And I wouldn't even know what "frilly" means if I tried. All my words are forceful. Authoritative. Virile. Focused. Poignant.

 

 

LOL...guess you have a point there.

Frilly doesn't fit me either..so we have that in common. :)

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So let's go on an internet date. I'll take you to msn.com. Pick you up at 6?

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I'll take that as a no.

 

Doesn't matter; I'm takin this hottie to the car show IRL. :bunny::bunny::bunny:

 

Oh, what a cruel game! How does one cope??

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