freeandlost Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 I started dating a guy about a week ago. I told him that I want to go REALLY slow and take my time because I am also going through a divorce. He has been pressuring me and telling me he loves me and how he is going to marry me and such. I have been so out of it that I don't even know which way is up. The problem is that I like the guy a lot, but am REALLY uncomfortable with where this is going - especially SO FAST. My question is, should I just buck up and tell him today that I was serious, I am not ready for this right now? I know he will be absolutely offended and act like I killed him, but really, it has been little over a week that we have been together exclusively and dating. Plus, there are other people that I think I want to date. I don't know who I want and don't want to have any regrets and settle down when I am not even legally divorced yet! Ok - thanks for listening. I just don't know the best way to go about this. He really thinks that I am "the one." Makes me wonder if there is an alterior motive or something too, as wrong as that may be.
ilovemurf Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 a week is not enough time to know if you love him or if he's "the one". take your time.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 You need to be stern with this guy and tell him that he is getting way to involved and that you would like to take things veeeeery slow. Because it seems like he is looking tobe with someone and he is looking fast. If he is already saying thathe has strong feelings for you then you need to get rid of him, honestly. Because how can you say ypu love someone after a month and you hardly know then , except for what you have told him. It seems crazy to downgrade from love to like. Get rid of him
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