Tangerina Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 So, I'm a 22 year old female and I live in a house with my best friend (D) who is also female and our other friend (P) who is male. So, Valentines day is coming up and D and I are currently single (and totally cool with with) so we decided to get a platonic dinner reservation at a nice place so we could go out and have fun. P has a girlfriend, but she lives in another state so we figured he could use a little fun too so we invited him to dinner as well. He was really excited and we were all excited to have room mate dinner on Thursday. Well, tonight he told us he couldn't come because his girlfriend wants to talk to him on the webcam ALL evening and night. Our dinner reservation is at 6:30 and we figured it would last an hour and then we are having a bunch of mutual friends over for a party at our place and kind of expected P would check in on the party a bit and then have a good long talk with his GF in his room. We totally understand that it is Valentine's day and they want to spend time together the only way they can, but we are kind of hurt and think it is super lame that she guilted him out of having a fun dinner with his friends for ONE HOUR! For the record there is absolutely no, and nor has there ever been, any kind of romantic tension between any of our room mates, and P's girlfriend lived with us for a month so she knows that and has no reason to be jealous on that account. I've been in long distance relationships for a total of 4 years of my life, and yeah I would be mad if my BF neglected to talk to me altogether on a holiday, but I really think asking him to miss dinner with his room mates and a party at his own house to talk on the webcam ALL NIGHT is super lame. Am I right, or is that normal?
EYECANDY000 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 I dont think you girls are being to sensative. I think his g/f is being insecure. I totally agree with what you are saying about them spending time togther the only way they can, but all evening and all night? C'mon now? Seems like the g/f dont want him hanging out with two other girls on V Day. Or having any kind of fun at the party since shes not there to share it with him. I dont understand whats the big deal with this Holiday anyways, but thats a whole nother subject.
Prodigal Princess Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 I dont think you girls are being to sensative. I think his g/f is being insecure. I totally agree with what you are saying about them spending time togther the only way they can, but all evening and all night? C'mon now? Seems like the g/f dont want him hanging out with two other girls on V Day. Or having any kind of fun at the party since shes not there to share it with him. I dont understand whats the big deal with this Holiday anyways, but thats a whole nother subject. Totally agree with this. Your flatmate has no balls. If he is pu$$y-whipped enough to ditch your dinner at his girlfriend's request, forget about him! You will probably enjoy your dinner better with just the girls anyway - will provide great b*tching time.
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