annie77 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 I've posted about this new guy I've been hanging out with. Known him about 4 mos. or so from the gym (we have mutual friends). Never hung out until just last weekend. I invited him over for the game and watched it with some friends. The next day he came over for a little bit. We didn't hang out during the week, just saw each other at the gym. Then just this past weekend he invited me over to his brother's. Met a couple of his brothers and their wives. We still haven't been on a "real date" so I'm thinking maybe he's just not really interested and wants to keep this just sexual. My friend disagrees, saying that if he only wanted that, he wouldn't want to bring me around his family like he did. This is the guy who just went through a divorce and has a young son. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
SamSang Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 he could just be a really loose guy who goes with a feeling or a serious guy who is putting some thought into the future. Did you meet the son? That's kind of crucial to your answers. Brothers would just say good job for getting back on your feet, so that wouldnt be as much of a big deal for him to bring you around them. Ask him when the timings right....tell him when you feel things are getting complicated. Most importantly, have fun.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 To me its a either, or , situation. I agree with your friend, that if he didnt like you he wouldnt have brung you around his family. So, its kind of hard to say. But also, I have been around plenty of my guy cousins and they have brought around a lot of random girls just to show them off . If you are interested in him the why havent you made the initiative to plan something?
Author annie77 Posted February 12, 2008 Author Posted February 12, 2008 I met the son for just a little while, when he woke up, he was still laying there and he brought me to see him. And as for me taking the initiative, I suggested last week that we go out to dinner. He was feeling a little under the weather but he did say it sounded like a good idea. When I did end up calling him that night, he said he really wasn't feeling well and that he would just stay in. So I figured I did my invite, got turned down, so I don't want to do it again and seem too eager or desperate. Also, if he really wanted to see me or was interested, I thought he would at least call and set up a date or something, which hasn't happened yet.
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