Belkin Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I've noticed that so many people around her dream about their ex after the breakup. So how about sharing the dreams you had here? I'd love to start, but I don't remember much about my recent dreams recently, besides that we were in London and had a great time together...
prisonbreak Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I haven't had a dream about HIM, but I did have an interesting dream. Like i said before, I have 2 kids. I was married to their dad, Tim. He was great, but he/we had our problems. Anyway, 8 yrs ago he died. I was devestated. I had a dream, where John came to me and I was telling him all about my break up and how sad I was. He replied saying, "What are you desparate?" Now if you knew him, that's exactly something he would say. He used to tell me, "You just light up the room when you enter". I took from the dream, that I need to stop acting so needy/desparate and be confident in myself.
eagle5 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I've had alot recently, one really hurt coz we'd talked and decided to get back together but then of course I woke up, ouch!! but several have been where I've been with her but known she'd finished it and felt ok about it!!! That's wierd as I haven't felt ok about it at all in real life. But whenever I have dreamed about her at all and woke up I always feel really low...
PinkRibbon Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 I haven't dreamed about him yet. I think it must be the massive amount of Tylenol PM every night. I don't dream at all that I can remember. Weird now that I think about it. I used to dream a bit but I haven't since we split up. I think maybe because I still don't sleep straight through the night. I always wake up several times.
DawnNC27 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Well, I haven't dreamt about an ex in a long time cause there hasn't been one ..yet.. But my first boyfriend, after we broke up, I didn't actually dream about him until I started dating someone else. I guess it brought back memories. That was 10 years ago..can't remember what the dream was about now heheh
Sadcakesleo Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 almost all my dreams involve some sexual activity but not quite, right when i am about to do something with her, I ask her if she has done this with another and the answer in a variey of forms is always yes, talk about a nightmare
sedgwick Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 In the one last night, his band was playing in a Baptist church. For some reason, I too was in a Baptist church. I tried not to look at him and to get out of the building before he could see me.
CalamitousJane Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Well lately I've had a dream about a mystery man who wasn't the ex. Which is a good thing, because often I still wake up thinking about the ex. This morning's dream was that he wanted me to order a particular sweatshirt in the color "toast" , then mail it to Switzerland for him. In the dream I discovered that there were no more "toast" sweatshirts in his size. I woke up imagining how I would try to convince him that a different color might be nice. I felt crazy and worried and desperate to please him. It was only after I'd been awake for a while that I realized that in the dream it was he who was asking ME for a favor, but it was me feeling bad when I couldn't measure up. Just like always, with him. The mystery man in my other dream would NEVER treat me like that.
Author Belkin Posted February 12, 2008 Author Posted February 12, 2008 Dreamt again about her tonight, it's starting to be a pattern now... I dreamt I was going on a blind date with this girl. When I met her, everything went out perfectly. I don't remember what we did, but it seemed we were both very pleased with the way the date had gone. Then, when it was time to part and maybe exchange phone # for a later date, I suddenly realized my date actually my ex... and woke up... Try to analyse that one, Freud!
Snap22 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 The wierdest dream i had about him went like this... I was in a big house with like 20 floorsand it was in the middle of nowhere. I was looking after a tiny baby (I dont have any children and in the dream the baby didnt feel like mine). The ex was a giant and he was circling the house looking for me and the child, he kept perring through the windows. I stayed in a tiny cupboard in the middle of the house so he couldnt see me and the baby.He started to pull the house apart with his huge hands and the baby was screaming, I put my hand over it's mouth so he couldnt hear us. Eventually he found us and as i looked up his eyes were green and his skin was grey and mottled (a bit like he'd been dead a while). Because I covered the babies mouth to stop it from screaming, I realised that I had suffocated him/her by accident. Then I woke up. I've dreamt this a few times and its starting to wierd me out now...I'm doing really well and feeling posistive again so I dont know why Im dreaming about him?
Author Belkin Posted February 13, 2008 Author Posted February 13, 2008 First time I dreamt about her and her new bf... Nothing special, we were a bunch of people at a table playing a weird dream game with glasses (go figure!) and she was there, sitting next to him... She then invaded all the dreams after that, but I don't remember much about them besides that she would not leave me alone.
Recommended Posts