Hiho49 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Me and the ex have been divorced for about 2 years. On Saturday I went round to the house to get some things for my daughter and met the ex new boy friend. Even though I know I do not want her back, she blamed her depression on me but is still taking anti depressants, and feel that I should be cool with the situation I can not help feeling unsettled.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Any advise on how to move on would be great. [/FONT][/COLOR]
matt367 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I can seee why your unsettled. It never feels good to see someone who you were close with moving on. Its great your taking care of your daughter and it sounds like you have it more together than your ex who's taking those antidepressants. Its been 2 years have you been seeing anyone? I think that dating or at least spending time with women would be a start at moving on, also try to see the ex as little as possible although im sure you have to because of your daughter. Stay busy with work, hobbies, spending time with your daughter, exercising literally anything. Replace your ex with a new woman and she wont be the focus of your life anymore.
Author Hiho49 Posted February 11, 2008 Author Posted February 11, 2008 Can see th sence in dating but after seventeen years with the same woman and not being that confident with women anyway just find it hard to meet someone.
Nomad1 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 You have allowed the experience with your ex to sap your confidence. She has a new man now. He is probably mot the first and won't be the last. I know that after 17yrs together, it takes longer to get detached, but your ex does not appear to be held back by that. Give someone else the chance to love you. You will get there. Take care Nomad1
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