onmyownagain Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Hi had such a weird dream last night, in the dream we were still together but she died and I was handling the funeral side of things etc. and how I was going to miss her. Haven't dreamt about her for a while now, this was so strange!
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Wow. This dream might mean a subconscious want in your mind. Or it might be a manifestation of you burying your feelings for your wife. Dreams could have meanings to them. Take heed of the one you had. Maybe this is a signal of you moving on.
Author onmyownagain Posted February 11, 2008 Author Posted February 11, 2008 Maybe this is a signal of you moving on. I hope so CB, I how so.
Author onmyownagain Posted February 11, 2008 Author Posted February 11, 2008 was it a dream or a fantasy? Sometimes think it would make it easier :-)
Nomad1 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 How might Freud explain your dream? He would probably say that you resent what she did giving rise to negative instinctive impulses towards her. You obviously don't wish for anything bad to happen to her because you still have some love for her and she is the mother of your daughter. To resolve this conflict, she dies in your dream and you are there to mourn her. What this could mean is that you are detaching yourself emotionally from her and you are grieving the loss of your relationship. How did you feel when you woke up? Nomad1
Author onmyownagain Posted February 11, 2008 Author Posted February 11, 2008 How did you feel when you woke up? Nomad1 Don't know really. I woke before my alarm (as seems the norm these days) and drifted in and out of sleep but didn't feel really bad or upset. I know it was just a dream but it did feel very real. One stange bit for me, I have had trust issues with her in the past and in my dream I went through her stuff in the hospital, even though she was dead looking for evidence of her doing me wrong. Only just remembered that part.
PinkRibbon Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 I dream my ex is dead but I put him there. Hmmm I wonder what that means....hahahahahahaah
Nomad1 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 It means that you want to cut off his air supply, lol! You wouldn't do that to him really, ok maybe just make him feel a little uncomfortable.
sadhubby Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 jeez ive had the dream where she is dead !! i cant find her !! she apologizes to me and runs into my arms !!! we talk about everything !! i wake up screaming her name !! we are haveing knock out sex !! running after her asking people i know if they have sceen her and they say yes like 5 mins ago and point and i run that way!! god is it gonna get better ?
Author onmyownagain Posted March 4, 2008 Author Posted March 4, 2008 Had another dream about her dying again last night. This time she fell into the Thames and I couldn't reach her. Loads of people around me and I was screaming for help but nobody did. Eventually I could see her floating below the water, obviously dead. Weird.
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