BKRPM Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Just an update, for those good people who read my stories and helped with great advice. I was the OM who struggled with an A with MW for almost three years. We work together, so that made it worse. There were great times, but balanced by many more very stressful times. I was starting to think that I was stuck in my situation. Most recently (November), MW went through a very despondent period, and then decided that she was going to be rude to me, so that I would transfer out of our work area. Why, because MW felt guilty that she was never going to leave H. I have a good job, so I don't intend to leave, just to appease MW. Well, I found a great woman (single!) about two months ago that I have been seeing. I don't know which way it will go, but we both are pretty smitten with each other at this point. After spending a great day together yesterday, which included us staying home and cooking a big dinner, I marveled at how enjoyable it was to be able to show and receive feelings from someone that was available to do so! Wish me luck....
White Flower Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 It must be nice getting all that one on one attention without any interruptions and other obligations. Enjoy it!
Meaplus3 Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 Just an update, for those good people who read my stories and helped with great advice. I was the OM who struggled with an A with MW for almost three years. We work together, so that made it worse. There were great times, but balanced by many more very stressful times. I was starting to think that I was stuck in my situation. Most recently (November), MW went through a very despondent period, and then decided that she was going to be rude to me, so that I would transfer out of our work area. Why, because MW felt guilty that she was never going to leave H. I have a good job, so I don't intend to leave, just to appease MW. Well, I found a great woman (single!) about two months ago that I have been seeing. I don't know which way it will go, but we both are pretty smitten with each other at this point. After spending a great day together yesterday, which included us staying home and cooking a big dinner, I marveled at how enjoyable it was to be able to show and receive feelings from someone that was available to do so! Wish me luck.... BKRPM, This is such great new's! Good for you. Enjoy! AP:)
GreenEyedLady Posted February 11, 2008 Posted February 11, 2008 That is wonderful news! Good luck with your new lady! And congratulations on being free!
Author BKRPM Posted February 12, 2008 Author Posted February 12, 2008 Thanks, friends. Just to not have to worry "What if someone sees us?", or "What if H finds out?" or any of those worries when dealing with a MW is worth it. I feel so free. Again, my new GF might or might not be the one. But I sure feel a lot better, and sleep better at night knowing that I am not getting in the middle of a marriage. I'm not to judge, though - I was in the A for a long time, and everyone on this board was pretty understanding, and not over-judgmental.
underpants Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 This is just a curious question. Does this new woman know about your previous relationship?
nadiaj2727 Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Thanks, friends. Just to not have to worry "What if someone sees us?", or "What if H finds out?" or any of those worries when dealing with a MW is worth it. I feel so free. Again, my new GF might or might not be the one. But I sure feel a lot better, and sleep better at night knowing that I am not getting in the middle of a marriage. I'm not to judge, though - I was in the A for a long time, and everyone on this board was pretty understanding, and not over-judgmental. "Freedom... freedom... freedom!" Good for you, congrats on enjoying the single life and finding an available fish in the sea... sounds like she is a pretty amazing fish too, I wish you luck with that. It sounds like you have the perfect attitude regarding taking it slow and not getting attached too soon. I hope it turns out to be an awesome relationship. Either way, you've realized that you can be fulfilled by someone other than xMW. I hope you lovebirds have a happy valentine's day!
frannie Posted February 17, 2008 Posted February 17, 2008 Hey BKRPM great to see you posting such a positive thread. I often think about you when OM post, and have wondered how you were doing. Hope you had a great Valentines
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