Teacher's Pet Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Hmm let's see. He had no plans tonight. He has no plans tomorrow night (as evidenced in the voice mail) So, do you REALLY think this guy has any??? I doubt it lol Now, he can add mine to the list of pu$$y he'll never get. And it's a shame, cuz I'm tight. :lmao: LOL...... first I have a good mental picture of your tatas, now.....the old Georgia O'Keefe.... Just let me beat on him for a while. -TP cute like dat
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 LOL...... first I have a good mental picture of your tatas, now.....the old Georgia O'Keefe.... Just let me beat on him for a while. -TP cute like dat Beat on WHO for a while, the guy, or your, um...ya know.
Mary3 Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Its entirely possible that he did not want to go when you asked him. He agreed just to be polite but blew it off the minute you left his sight. This same man has sent you apologies and pictures of roses and has asked you for another date ? I would be fair warned that he might not show up on this next supposed date. Why ? He's either a manic depressive who was so uninterested in keeping your date initially... or he is just cruel. I hope he shows up. I would keep an eye on this guy for the next 3 months. Don't give your heart til he proves worthy of it
Teacher's Pet Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Beat on WHO for a while, the guy, or your, um...ya know. Well, which should I do first? :) -TP setting his priorities
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 Its entirely possible that he did not want to go when you asked him. He agreed just to be polite but blew it off the minute you left his sight. This same man has sent you apologies and pictures of roses and has asked you for another date ? I would be fair warned that he might not show up on this next supposed date. Why ? He's either a manic depressive who was so uninterested in keeping your date initially... or he is just cruel. I hope he shows up. I would keep an eye on this guy for the next 3 months. Don't give your heart til he proves worthy of it No, he was indeed interested when I asked him, he didn't agree just to be polite. I invited him along with his mutual friends of ours on an email. If he didnt' want to attend all he had to do was reply that he had other plans. It was that simple. Fact of the matter is, this is just how he is. And is more than likely why he's snigle at age 50. I don't believe for one second that he didn't turn me down initially just because he didn't want to hurt my feelings, because well, don't YOU think that he'd realize not showing up AT ALL and not calling AT ALL was more hurtful than anything? I spent that evening worried that something had happened to him. Yeah, this man doesn't think about consequence of his action. He probably got his kicks somewhere else that night, and that's fine, because he proved to me early on that I need not waste my time contemplating a relationship with him. Besides, if you were really sorry about something, wouldn't you have brought it up and apologized by now? He has not. A text at 945 the next morning saying "sorry about last night" and then not mentioning any sort of apology since then, is rather unapologetic in my book. With men like this to date, I'll stay single, thanks.
Mary3 Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 No, he was indeed interested when I asked him, he didn't agree just to be polite. I invited him along with his mutual friends of ours on an email. If he didnt' want to attend all he had to do was reply that he had other plans. It was that simple. Fact of the matter is, this is just how he is. And is more than likely why he's snigle at age 50. I don't believe for one second that he didn't turn me down initially just because he didn't want to hurt my feelings, because well, don't YOU think that he'd realize not showing up AT ALL and not calling AT ALL was more hurtful than anything? I spent that evening worried that something had happened to him. Yeah, this man doesn't think about consequence of his action. He probably got his kicks somewhere else that night, and that's fine, because he proved to me early on that I need not waste my time contemplating a relationship with him. Besides, if you were really sorry about something, wouldn't you have brought it up and apologized by now? He has not. A text at 945 the next morning saying "sorry about last night" and then not mentioning any sort of apology since then, is rather unapologetic in my book. With men like this to date, I'll stay single, thanks. Its SO beautiful that we women are getting more savvy and our receptors are *on* when it comes to flakes , shams and perpetually single 50 year olds ,. I feel the same way. Successfully Single and loving it !
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 19, 2008 Author Posted February 19, 2008 It's amazing how much this guy has pursued me since the stand up. After my not accepting his valentines day invites, he emailed me friday and then called friday night. Apparently wants to do a make up valentines day dinner/movie or something. I was like, why, so you can stand me up again? lol I guess it's true that the more you push away the more men want you. Can't say I've ever seen this first hand. Very interesting indeed. He has managed to go a few days now without contacting me. So maybe he's taken the hint. Who knows.
Pyro Posted February 19, 2008 Posted February 19, 2008 It's amazing how much this guy has pursued me since the stand up. After my not accepting his valentines day invites, he emailed me friday and then called friday night. Apparently wants to do a make up valentines day dinner/movie or something. I was like, why, so you can stand me up again? lol I guess it's true that the more you push away the more men want you. Can't say I've ever seen this first hand. Very interesting indeed. He has managed to go a few days now without contacting me. So maybe he's taken the hint. Who knows. Thats so weird. When you want him, he avoids you and now that you don't, he wants you. Hopefully he has gotten the hint.
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