Art_Critic Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 I am also sick with a sinnus infection, so I dont really want to be going out... If you weren't sick would you take him up on his offer ?
D-Lish Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 The guy who stood me up Saturday sent email to all the accounts he has for me AND my cell phone sending a picture of roses and saying happy valentines day and asking me if I have plans for dinner tonight. Classic. Just classic. !!! Unbelievable.... I'd not answer and text him tomorrow morning! hehe. Well, I have no date tonight. I'll be posting here more than likely.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 If you weren't sick would you take him up on his offer ? Only if i wanted to leave him standing. I'm a smart girl. I know this guy has blown his chances lol. No man leaves me hanging and gets away with it.
Art_Critic Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 No man leaves me hanging and gets away with it. Atta Girl ....
underpants Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 My friends are telling me to accept, and then stand him up. I admit, it would be funny, and on valentines day to boot - double ouch! But, I'm not the vengeful sort... Too bad cuz it is a golden opportunity LOL I am also sick with a sinnus infection, so I dont really want to be going out... That would be classic. Oh, you should do it. Are you sure you are sick???
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 That would be classic. Oh, you should do it. Are you sure you are sick??? I am sick. I'm sure I could muster up the energy to f with him, but I really don't think he's worth the time of this "catch". :-) F it. Saving it for the man who won't stand me up, and will ask me out for valentines day as soon as he meets me hehehe. ok well not if we meet on like, Feb 20th and then he has to wait a year, but you know what i mean. This guy took me out a few weeks ago, he could have asked about V-day well in advance...
Pyro Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 Don't respond and tomorrow or the next day respond with the same excuse that he gave you. That should give him the hint.
latefragment Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 wow that is just so wrong on so many levels. if I were you I would be speechless. !!! WHAT PLANET is he on?
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 Don't respond and tomorrow or the next day respond with the same excuse that he gave you. That should give him the hint. Well I did respond earlier but didnt' really say whether or not I'd wanna go to dinner with him lol. I figure if he tries to make contact, I'll ignore it. Unless I'm feeling really b*tchy in which case I'll arrange a time and place and then keep my phone on until around the time and then turn it off LOL. I'll prob just do nothing though, I just dont have that b in me. Well she's in there, but she doesn't come out lol
Pyro Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 Well I did respond earlier but didnt' really say whether or not I'd wanna go to dinner with him lol. I figure if he tries to make contact, I'll ignore it. Unless I'm feeling really b*tchy in which case I'll arrange a time and place and then keep my phone on until around the time and then turn it off LOL. I'll prob just do nothing though, I just dont have that b in me. Well she's in there, but she doesn't come out lol Being the bigger person is always the best. I just thought it would be funny.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 Being the bigger person is always the best. I just thought it would be funny. Maybe I'll tell him my cousin died so I didn't feel like talking... lol Else maybe I'll tell him that he might be older, but he certainly isn't wiser.
latefragment Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 I wouldn't be surprised if he DID make plans with you for this evening, and then he stood you up AGAIN. This is the type of guy that he seems to be. Something similar happened to me. A guy who flaked on me once or twice, went on to flake on me 3, 4... times. It was so terrible because I allowed it.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 14, 2008 Author Posted February 14, 2008 I wouldn't be surprised if he DID make plans with you for this evening, and then he stood you up AGAIN. This is the type of guy that he seems to be. Something similar happened to me. A guy who flaked on me once or twice, went on to flake on me 3, 4... times. It was so terrible because I allowed it. No worries. Tonight is my guilty pleasure tv night which I partake of with my girls (though only "with" eachother online). We watch Survivor and The Apprentice and Celebrity Rehab and life is just dandy! I plan on getting me some good take out, and getting my sick butt back on the couch, and not spending a second thinking about the fact that it's February 14th.
underpants Posted February 14, 2008 Posted February 14, 2008 I am sick. I'm sure I could muster up the energy to f with him, but I really don't think he's worth the time of this "catch". :-) That is probably the wisest and best attitude to have. Don't respond and tomorrow or the next day respond with the same excuse that he gave you. That should give him the hint. Although, I like this. It is a good compromise between serving it up big and not doing anything. I do hope you feel better soon.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 Just as an FYI - he called me about 2 hours ago. I have ignored the voicemail requesting I call him. I dont know if I'll call way after dinner time (it's already late enough) or not call at all lol Any ideas? I was thinking about texting him in the AM with the same thing he texted me with sunday after he stood me up "Sorry about last night". But, nah.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 My phone is currently ringing....again. lol
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 hahahaha So he's a bright one. He's all "hey it's X" it's like 830 or something. i'm gonna guess that we are not getting together tonight. Maybe we can do it another night, maybe like tomorrow or something. I guess maybe with a little more advanced planning. So, i hope you had a good valentines day and i hope to talk to you soon and i'll talk to you then" HAHAHAHA He has made my valentines day. He has NO clue he did anything wrong. Else he thinks I'm reaaaaaaaaaally stupid. I have to say, it has made me laugh how hard he's pursued since the fact. I guess men really do only want what they can't have.
Art_Critic Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 I guess men really do only want what they can't have. In this case it isn't pu$$y.. he seems to have plenty of that
OpenBook Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 I have to say, it has made me laugh how hard he's pursued since the fact. I guess men really do only want what they can't have. Words to live by!! Never give them what they want. In this guy's case, I think you should totally mess with his mind, similar to a cat toying with a mouse - have him where he's in excruciating pain, begging for it... and then leave him twisting in the wind. Men who stand you up deserve no mercy.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 In this case it isn't pu$$y.. he seems to have plenty of that Hmm let's see. He had no plans tonight. He has no plans tomorrow night (as evidenced in the voice mail) So, do you REALLY think this guy has any??? I doubt it lol Now, he can add mine to the list of pu$$y he'll never get. And it's a shame, cuz I'm tight. :lmao:
Art_Critic Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Hmm let's see. He had no plans tonight. He has no plans tomorrow night (as evidenced in the voice mail) So, do you REALLY think this guy has any??? I doubt it lol Now, he can add mine to the list of pu$$y he'll never get. And it's a shame, cuz I'm tight. :lmao: I meant that he was a pu$$y... I was trying to be clever and cute with my post.. oh well....
D-Lish Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 I'm glad you didn't go!!! Let him squirm. Bet it feels good to be back in the driver's seat. Good for you for holding strong.
Author AriaIncognito Posted February 15, 2008 Author Posted February 15, 2008 I meant that he was a pu$$y... I was trying to be clever and cute with my post.. oh well.... You're always clever and cute :-) My apologies for taking it the other way hehehe. Now, he wants to get together tomorrow night. I wonder if I should bother contacting him to tell him I'm away for the weekend? Hehehe.
jerbear Posted February 15, 2008 Posted February 15, 2008 Now, he wants to get together tomorrow night. I wonder if I should bother contacting him to tell him I'm away for the weekend? In my opinion, be a better person and just tell him that you are busy. The 2nd time he calls, tell him the truth that you are not interested.
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