UNiBU Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 So I feel I'm kind of in a tough situation. There's this girl that I like. She is basically a client of mine and we work in the same company. We have worked on numerous projects together in the past and will continue to do so in the future. Lately I have been having feelings for her. I want to ask her out but I'm afraid if I do, it'll ruin our work relationship. At the same time, I don't want to miss out on a chance. Should I be blunt and ask her out or do I give it time by showing that I'm interested in her over time. And at the same time, see if she shows signs of interests over me. What I'm afraid of is making our professional "work" relationship feel awkward. What are your thoughts? Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Always Wrong Posted February 11, 2008 Share Posted February 11, 2008 My job is about half of my life. I wouldn't risk screwing up my comfort zone at work. Stay friends. Failed emotional ventures in the work place can make the day a lot less enjoyable. Not worth the risk to me, but I'm emotionally driven, so things like that effect me quite a bit. Maybe you could pull it off... only you know how bad the down side would be if it went poorly. Link to post Share on other sites
LikesMeNot Posted February 11, 2008 Share Posted February 11, 2008 (edited) Normally you shouldn't do such a thing. It's generally best to leave relationships outside the workplace. Anyways, since you work with her a lot, by screwing up, you'll make work a lot less comfortable for both of you. No one is stopping you from making your decision. Do what you want. I personally would not, but go ahead. Choose your life Quote of the Day 2/11/08: "People do what is convenient for them, then repent." -Bob Dylan, American Folk Singer Edited February 11, 2008 by LikesMeNot Quote of the Day Error Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 There is a hard rule: do NOT date the client, ever. Workplace relationships are hard enough, but when it's a client, all kinds of really bad things can happen. Wait until the project is OVER, then ask her out, not before. If you will be working on many projects in the future, forget it. Do NOT date the client, ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Mahatma Posted February 13, 2008 Share Posted February 13, 2008 No matter what you decide to do, do not just be blunt and ask her out. Give it time until you either move on, or know she is interested. Don't forget to look at the end result too. Chances are, you probably won't marry this girl, so you will break up at some time and then what? Awkwardness. Probably not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
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