x Amy x Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 Me and my boyfriend were very close and have spent everyday together since meeting, by choice. I am pregnant with his child, but the relationship has deteriorated, substancially, very slowly. He has asked me to marry him and to begin with I agreed but since, I've decided not to. I feel that the trust we once had has gone, he spends most of his time on the internet, playing games or watching films. He doesn't seem bothered about criticising my appearance and putting me down, as I'm getting my bump and the hormones wreaking havoc on acne. I've already given him a second chance, pointed out where we have gone wrong and for a short time it seemed like we could stay together, but It now seems that everything is so much worse, he won't help me clean around the flat, spends all his money, talks to his friends on the phone out of the room I am in or waits until I've gone to bed and says how he wants to go out clubbing with his friends and leave me at home carrying his child. So I have decided that I'm going to be the man in the relationship (someone has to stand up surely!?!?) and break it up, because I believe that we don't have a future together, it will be a healthier atmosphere for mybaby to grow up in without arguements and stress and I can't continue with all the stress the problem is i need to do it before Valentines day because he has a big "thing" organised and I can't go through with it knowing how I feel. It is also our anniversary tomorrow. This is such an upsetting situation for me, any sensible suggestions to do this without conflict and to keep the possibility of us being friends would be appreciated.
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