Ehaze Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I hit it off with the girl I met, She looks very nice too! Anyway.. She asked me how much I make like 2 times. She asked how big my house was. She asked what kind of cars I drive.... I told her everything she wanted to know, and she gave me her number and told me to call her, and she wanted to see me again... Should I be put off by this? or should I wait the normal week or 2?
EYECANDY000 Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 THis girls seems more into what you have then the type of person you are. Sounds like she wants to know how she can benefit from you first before she goes any further. If she was asking such questions right from the start then yes you need to avoid her as soon as possible. But if you two were having a mutual discussion about your homes, cars, etc , then you be thrown off by it. oh yea to answer your question about how long to wait to call it should be within the next day or so if you reaaly gained an interest for her.
compassion42 Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 In my opinion she sounds pretty shallow. But if you don't mind her strong focus on material things, then go for it and call her sooner rather than later. Good luck!
SomewhereWandering Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 When did a week or 2 become the norm for a call after receiving a number? Not saying that you should call her or not... Personally if a guy waited a week, especially 2, to call I would be very put off and annoyed by it. I know that's not what you were asking for advice on, but thought I would ask and interject.
norajane Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 She asked you how much you make upon first meeting? And you're considering seeing her again? Why? Do you expect her to become less rude and gold-digging that she is now?
OrangeSnack Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 She's interested in your money, not you.
lino Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 sounds like a pretty normal girl to me. if you pursue her just be sure to not let her use you for money, that way you'll know what she's really after
Phateless Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 1. I would never wait two weeks to call a girl 2. You shouldn't have dignified those questions with a serious response. She's revealing herself to be pretty superficial. I would have responded with something like "what do you work for the IRS or something? I swear I've paid all my taxes. :p"
Taramere Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I hit it off with the girl I met, She looks very nice too! Anyway.. She asked me how much I make like 2 times. She asked how big my house was. She asked what kind of cars I drive.... I told her everything she wanted to know, and she gave me her number and told me to call her, and she wanted to see me again... Should I be put off by this? The way you present it, it's as though she was interviewing you on your ability to provide for her. At the end of it all, she gave you her number in a "you've passed!" gesture. I guess it's always nice to find out you've passed some kind of test - even one you hadn't planned on sitting. What are your priorities in terms of a woman? If looks and style come top of the list for you, and if this woman has both, then why not see her again? If you're more into the deep, spiritual and non-materialistic type, then given the line of questioning she applied she might not be your type. Then again a) opposites often attract; and b) Apparently shallow, materialistic people are often, in reality, extremely deep and beautiful souls once you get to know them. Just because someone drives a top of the range Porsche and doesn't like hanging out with poor people, that's not to say they they aren't founts of information about stuff like Kabbulah, tarot cards, feng shui, motivational thinking, The Celestine Prophecy and so on. I think you should give this gold digging bint of a woman a chance. How much do you earn, out of interest?
BUENG1 Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 The way you present it, it's as though she was interviewing you on your ability to provide for her. At the end of it all, she gave you her number in a "you've passed!" gesture. I guess it's always nice to find out you've passed some kind of test - even one you hadn't planned on sitting. What are your priorities in terms of a woman? If looks and style come top of the list for you, and if this woman has both, then why not see her again? If you're more into the deep, spiritual and non-materialistic type, then given the line of questioning she applied she might not be your type. Then again a) opposites often attract; and b) Apparently shallow, materialistic people are often, in reality, extremely deep and beautiful souls once you get to know them. Just because someone drives a top of the range Porsche and doesn't like hanging out with poor people, that's not to say they they aren't founts of information about stuff like Kabbulah, tarot cards, feng shui, motivational thinking, The Celestine Prophecy and so on. I think you should give this gold digging bint of a woman a chance. How much do you earn, out of interest? This all might be true, but it still doesn't change the fact that she didn't express interest in any of those qualities in him except for money. It seems pretty obvious to me that the girl is just looking to rip him off.
Taramere Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 This all might be true, but it still doesn't change the fact that she didn't express interest in any of those qualities in him except for money. It seems pretty obvious to me that the girl is just looking to rip him off. Are you American?
BUENG1 Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 Are you American? I'm half Jamaican but born in the US.
Taramere Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I'm half Jamaican but born in the US. Okay...then I'll adjust this story slightly to fit (don't take offence btw - I'm pet-sitting just now, and intensely bored). Jay Fullmer, 38, yesterday became the first American to get to grips with the concept of irony. "I was in London and like, talking to this guy and it was raining. He pulled a face and said, "Great weather eh?" I thought to myself - "Wait a minute, no way is this great weather.". Fullmer finally realised that the other man's 'mistake' was in fact an attempt to be humorous. Fuller laughed obligingly and threw out an unconvincing.... "That's funny." Fullmer, who is 39 next month and married with two children, aged 8 and 3, plans to use irony himself in future. "I love it! I'm like, using it all the time" he said. "Last weekend I was grilling chicken jerky and I burned it. So I said "Hey, great weather!" OP, tell the gold digging tramp this story. If she responds by asking "So this Fullmer guy....when he visited London did he, like, travel first class?" then it's time to start working hard for that black Amex card and preparing yourself for a life of genuine misery.
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