Kamille Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 BF has planned a romantic dinner for us since he won't be here for Valentine's day. I usually wear my sexiest underwear, do the smoky-eyes make-up thing and just generally feel very sexy throughtout these evening which inevitably end in bed. Well. I have my period. And bf has, so far, not shown himself to be a fan of sexual activities at that time of the month. That's fine, I respect it, but tonight I seem to therefore be unable to work myself into sexy dinner mood. I guess I could always work on my bj jedi reputation. sigh. But but but... What's the advice I'm looking for here.... Basically, anyone know how to keep the steam rolling even though it's that time of the month? ps: raging hormones also mean increased sex drive for me - but the fact I won't get anything seems to discourage me from even getting myself in the mood.
Letranger Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 Why don't you get a vibrator and have him pleasure you through your panties?
Author Kamille Posted February 10, 2008 Author Posted February 10, 2008 Why don't you get a vibrator and have him pleasure you through your panties? hmmm... I have a vibrator and he's not afraid to use it.... Great idea.
Letranger Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 And what about breast f'ing? Get some good oil between your cleavage, and still use the vibrator.
saviourself Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 letranger is on to something. though probably not exactly the idea of passion one would expect, still a way to satisfy the urges. as an addition to above mentioned, i'd make him promise a rain check night of unforgettable fun for when you're off you're period. but... YOU get to pick the plays and he has to abide.
Ariadne Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 Well, Tell him that you are so sorry, but that he'll have to do it in the as. After your jedi stuff.
Author Kamille Posted February 10, 2008 Author Posted February 10, 2008 Well, Tell him that you are so sorry, but that he'll have to do it in the as. After your jedi stuff. I have yet to get used to the ass thing. But actually bf and I had a major tiff tonight. I'll try and see if I can formulate a new thread about it.
johan Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 But actually bf and I had a major tiff tonight. Sounds like problem solved.
Author Kamille Posted February 10, 2008 Author Posted February 10, 2008 Sounds like problem solved. hey, how you doing?
johan Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I'm doing well, Kamille. Sorry to hear about your little fight. Maybe you can follow through on your original plan in a day or two.
Author Kamille Posted February 10, 2008 Author Posted February 10, 2008 Nope I can't seem to be able to articulate a thread about the fight. I'm not sure I understand what happened. Maybe tomorow.
Star Gazer Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 Nope I can't seem to be able to articulate a thread about the fight. I'm not sure I understand what happened. Maybe tomorow. Darnit! What happened?
Author Kamille Posted February 10, 2008 Author Posted February 10, 2008 Darnit! What happened? Well we both study in related fields and we got onto theoretical discussions. I feel like he always keeps control of the discussions by deciding what is and what is not a valid argument. I also feel like it's an ego thing for him: he will never concede that I or anyone else has a point, he will only destroy whatever he can destroy of what anyone has to say. I told him this. In much longer, more drawn out ways. He basically told me he felt like I didn't 'master' a part of the field I'm in. I asked him what authority he had to decide that I wasn't a master and what did mastery mean anyways (see, it gets complicated). And told him I felt like he was more invested in controlling and winning the theoretical discussions we have then actually discussing and sharing knowledge. Anyways, it was all very theoretical but I think I ended up winning the whole argument about how we talk theory. Caught him on a few contradictions. He just fell silent. And I refused to speak up and be the one to make it better. It's better now. I'm still at his place and he came to kiss me goodnight and ask me to sleep over. I'm sure we could both learn to talk theory better. Perhaps tomorow I will have the energy to post something about that.
Star Gazer Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 It's better now. I'm still at his place and he came to kiss me goodnight and ask me to sleep over. I'm relieved!
Dumbledore Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I'm still at his place and he came That's what I call a happy ending! Perhaps tomorow I will have the energy to post something about that. Yes, your hands must be exhausted. We can wait.
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