Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 well i had said i wasnt going to post anymore but i really need peoples advice on this situation lol because i am so confused right now.....if you have read my posts u probably know what my situation is and if you dont you can ask anything you want... well me and my bf of 1yr nd 2 mnths broke up for "the last time" 2 weeks ago becase i didnt like the fact that he was talking alot to this one girl ( a shool hoe by the way...) he got sick a couple days later that week and i skipped school and i went to take care of him...it seemed as if he missed me and wanted me back so i asked him that friday of that week if he wanted to be with me and that i wanted him back....he said he was going to call me and tell me what he decided and he never called me...so i assumed that he didnt want to be with me and texted him telling him not to even worry about me anymore and to forget it that i got the picture that he didnt want to be with me.... well i was deppressed that whole weekend and out of no where my girl friend from the past calls me and we start hanging out tells me she wanted me to meet this one guy she knew who was her friends best friend....and so me and him started talking and we clicked he has been through things with girls and i have to many times with boys and we are so much alike and we have already kissed and we just met and he tells me that he doesnt want to get played and hurt (just like me) and that if anything happens between him and i that he wanted to take it slow that he didnt want to rush things.he is so sweet and so cute...i love the way he treats me (total opposite from my ex)...hes too perfect to be true.. my ex always looks at me in school when im near and tryes to be near me except i am acting happy joking and laughing with my friends and sometimes even forget hes there...well recently my x apparently has been trying to contact me but someone has been telling him that i had played him alot of times and that i am with someone right now and that i never loved him and things like that....i was talking to his mom and she told me many things and she told me that he always admits that he still loves me but he doesnt think i feel the same way for him anymore... him and his brother have a problem with drugs...they smoke weed and pop pills alot...my exs mom told him the other day that if he was going to be doing those things to not be with me and look for me when hes ready and when hes cured because she didnt want me to fall into the same situation as him..she is planning to take them to a rehabilitation center...well i dont know what to do at this point because i rellay like that one guy i met...but its that i just met him and me and my bf have been toguether for a while now and i know everything about him and our families get along and we have been througha alot...but i dont want to hurt that other boy...he seems like he would be a perfect boyfriend.the perfect guy to be with to take care of you and support you.... right now ever since i said it was really over and hanging out with my friend again and since i have been talking to that one boy i have been feeling so calm and happy and relaxed....when i think of the idea of getting back my ex it stresses me out and it feels weird because i dont want to go back to the same thing....i think if i do ever give him a chance it would be when hes healthy when he stops smoking and taking pills..when he becomes his own self again.....i love him very much and i always will but i dont know if going back is the right thing to do anymore because i have a good feeling about this new guy and i want to give him a chance and prove to him that i am not like the rest of the girls that i am different and to show him and myself that i can be happy again..... what do you guys think about my situation? should i stick with my true love or should i give myself the opportunity to start fresh with someone new??? THANX FOR READING UP TO THIS POINT I REALLY APPRECIATE IT....
JustinWolf Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Well you are saying your new love is perfect and everything. I'd probably go for this new love and learn to appreciate them better. Good Luck, though.
Author Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted February 12, 2008 Author Posted February 12, 2008 thanx for your reply.. and yeah maybe your right i will give this new love a chance and take things slow...my ex doesnt know how to appreaciate me anymore so there is no point of going back even though my love for him will always be there that is a promise i wil never break..
WakeUpPeople Posted February 12, 2008 Posted February 12, 2008 Yeah move on, u cant keep clinging on, its hard to let a love one go but we all been there. Guys come and go, ur still young and havent hit ur prime yet...U have to learn how to open your eyes and see reality for what it is...because for most people they dont learn no matter how much advice you give them until they run into there own brick walls and even then they are still hard headed. Why are you going to keep continuing breaking your head for someone who only see's u has a second option...Go into no contact, which means no email, no phone, no text, no form of communication with him..No contract works like a charm 100 success rate when indeed the person truly loves u. Vanish from the face of he earth. Meet new ppl, date others but take it lightly...practice being aloof and apathy....what he does is no longer ur business and what you do is no longer his since ur not together no more. After time ull look back at the situation and laugh like damn why was i so stupid for taking crap this long and ur not gonna even care about him no more. if he does love u and see u with other guys and u not giving 2 bull*** about him its gonna drive him wild. Just move with yourself because you have ur whole life ahead of u.. - The wakeup call...
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