Dear Lady Disdain Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 (edited) Hi everyone... Just a simple question really...there is something I don't quite understand. My ex was emotionally rather abusive and he was a womaniser...I stayed with him though for quite a long time since I adored him at first. I slowly felt more and more demoralised though and ended up walking away for good almost three weeks ago. Since then something has puzzled me. My ex turned against me simultaneously with a mutual friend who became very jealous the instant she found out we were involved. It was pretty bad since I had just thrown a party for them and stuff then flip, they both seemed to hate me! Really weird...I think this friend was kept in the dark about it all and now he knows more - because one day I said "is **** okay?" about the girl, so pretty obvious we weren't talking... I work with another mutual friend of theirs...I don't really know him but he is friendly with both of them. Since I walked away he has been very nice to me, smiling and the other day in the canteen he couldn't take his eyes off me. And when I last saw him in the town I made a quick getaway because I didn't want to see anyone connected with my ex. But as I was leaving he said "are you well?"...I said "yes I'm well thankyou" and left. I have been feeling emotionally and physically exhausted but I don't want everyone to know. It's strange...he stares at me as if he is scrutinising me. And the other day when he saw me in the town I did look quite spaced out and upset... Before, at first he flirted a bit, then he was all moody, now he's being all nice... I am just wondering why he is being so nice when neither of his friends seem to want anything to do with me. It's quite touching in a way because maybe he feels sorry for what happened. And I'm glad he's being nice because it's like everyone else hates me. But could he have an ulterior motive? It's just puzzling...I can't believe he would seriously be after me but maybe that is because I am feeling low and demoralised at the moment. Please help! Wishing you all a good night... x Edited February 9, 2008 by Dear Lady Disdain
FLOWERYSTARS Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 You seem to spend alot of time thinking about your ex and all of his friends, and in that way you miss opportunities for a nicer social life for yourself. What you focus on becomes your world, like parallel universes, there could be so much you are failing to see. You sound lonely, try raising your vibration by thinking pleasant and positive thoughts and attracting positive people.
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