brokenthinker Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 I swear I am beginning to think this all boils down to immaturity... So my wife's close friend, one of the ones that was encouraging her to leave me for another man.... just cheated on her husband and ran off on him and is "in love" with OM... and is actually asking my wife how to get away with it and how to lose her husband.... and my wife actually gives her advice on how to get away with it... I must say most of the feelings I have for my wife have faded and I am pretty disgusted with her. It's like she thinks life is just one giant joke. And that breaking hearts isn't a big deal. Well her friend did marry her husband after knowing him 2 weeks.... almost the same amount of time it took my wife to fall in love and move in with her affair partner.. so I guess I can only hope something just as tragic will happen and put her in her place and make her grow up... I hope....
LadyDi Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 Sorry you're going thru this. No excuses, but while in an A, you're in kind of a fog.....she isn't thinking clearly. But it is hurting you and that's the worse part.
ladyintights Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 So your wife is living elsewhere now? I really do think you deserve better than this. Your wife has little to no character. I can understand your declining attraction to a person who has no sense of integrity, nobility, or loyalty. At least you know what type of person she is NOW and can slowly come to the realization that THIS is not the person you fell in love with or imagined spending the rest of your life with.
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I guess I can only hope something just as tragic will happen and put her in her place and make her grow up... I hope.... From what you wrote in an earlier post: apparently he enjoys underage teen porn.. and is subscribed to a bunch of public forums on FLickr.com like "married ladies who enjoy sex with other men" and a whole bunch of other stuff... in fact he recently uploaded a bunch of raunchy pics of him kissing / watching porn with other girls... This sort of thing doesn't magically end, you know. I don't see a "happily ever after" for your W and OM. Just a hunch.
lovelorcet Posted February 10, 2008 Posted February 10, 2008 I swear I am beginning to think this all boils down to immaturity... So my wife's close friend, one of the ones that was encouraging her to leave me for another man.... just cheated on her husband and ran off on him and is "in love" with OM... and is actually asking my wife how to get away with it and how to lose her husband.... and my wife actually gives her advice on how to get away with it... I must say most of the feelings I have for my wife have faded and I am pretty disgusted with her. It's like she thinks life is just one giant joke. And that breaking hearts isn't a big deal. Well her friend did marry her husband after knowing him 2 weeks.... almost the same amount of time it took my wife to fall in love and move in with her affair partner.. so I guess I can only hope something just as tragic will happen and put her in her place and make her grow up... I hope.... My ex pulled something like this as well. I just don't get it even today, almost 2 years later. Is this just some type of female brain-fart? Her delusions of grandeur faded after about 6 months. I think after she realized how stupid she was behaving. We have more or less "normal" contact with each other now and all that I see is that she leads a very lonely life and is ashamed of herself.
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