4givrnt4gtr Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 Funny story.... Well not really funny, but just...odd i guess... So some of you have read how my bf of 8 months was acting rather odd a few weeks back...a little distant, quiet etc. I kept asking him if everything was ok, and he always said nothing was going on. So...finally i gave up asking, trusting he is actually fine, and things came back to normal once he stop staying up til 1 am (apparently tiredness does not do anything good to him) Well, now, lately he's been asking ME if I was ok. The first two times he asked, i said i was fine and kinda brushed it off, not thinking much of it....but then yesterday he asked me right as i was walking into his place, and then again a few minutes later. I was a bit baffled, as I didnt think i was acting any different.... Now i know how he felt when i kept asking him. Im wondering if im giving out a vibe? I mean....hm. I dont know. I asked him why he though i wasnt ok and he just shrugged. I know one thing for sure is that we BOTH have to work on our communication skills, cuz obviously is lacking major time. I know I gotta be more open, but how in the world do i get him to SPEAK! tALK! Oddness i tell you, oddness...if we keep it up, we're gonna be entangled in a "are you ok?" circle!
EYECANDY000 Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 At least you know that both of you need to work on your communication skills. It may be possible that he was sensing a negative ora from you and he wanted to make sure you was ok. Or maybe he got use to you asking him if he was ok, and when you stopped he thought that was out the ordinary. Start asking him more probing questions, instead of yes no answers.
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