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Has anyone here ever dealt with this kind of situation;

 

After initial drama etc of break-up and a few months of self-pity and endless crying, I've now become good friends with my ex again. I'm not content with that though and I really don't want to go too far down this route. I want to be her boyfriend again. She told me she missed me, but this was like at the end of November.

 

I haven't explained this well I realise but my emotions are all over the place and I've had a bit to drink.

 

Thnks in advance

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I have definitely faced this situation.

After the breakup with my ex, we continued to talk for a couple of months and things were good (as friends) but ofcourse I still love him and I wanted more. It became so hard for me that I couldnt handle being his friend anymore. Oddly enough we just lost touch in the last month. Its shameful that it had to end this way (our friendship) but Im hopeful that we will be friends again in the future.

But since she told you she misses you, Id say you got a pretty good shot of reuniting with this ex of yours. You need to find out how she feels and if she doesnt feel the same way, then perhaps you need to distance yourself from her for a little while so you can move on.

 

Good luck.

I really wish you the best.

:)

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