Haohmaru Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Your ex and I are very similar in age, mindset, sexual partner number, and reasons we broke up, possibly mistakenly, with our lovely ladies. I have questions. If you wouldn't mind divulging a little info, I would greatly appreciate the enlightenment. It may help me make more sense of my situation. You said your ex is still your best friend. I want mine to be close to me as friends, too. That's the bottom line. 1. How long did you guys go out? 2. Did you have to block him/treat him mean for a while to heal? 3. Who did the reconnecting? 4. How long did it take before you reconnected? 5. Anything else you think I should know about this? How to deal, all that...
sedgwick Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 The ex who's my best friend is my ex-husband. The ex who most recently broke my heart doesn't speak to me at all. The last thing I said to him was, "Never forget that I love you always for exactly who you are," and he said, "Sorry I can't give you what you want." I'd give anything if he'd reconcile with me. But apparently he's either forgotten me or hates me. I've spent months and months trying to figure out what I did. My ex-husband and I always were friends and always will be. It's just that the marriage thing didn't work out for us. We never stopped being each other's best friends, and it was a totally amicable divorce. As far as how you should heal, it sounds like you really love her. TELL HER!!!!!!
Author Haohmaru Posted February 8, 2008 Author Posted February 8, 2008 I am not sure I can commit, so I cannot contact her for that or tell her my feelings. But her birthday is coming up the day before V-Day. I want to text her Happy Birthday. We were going out 8-9 months. It's been a month of NC. Is this too soon to contact her? What do you think?
Author Haohmaru Posted February 9, 2008 Author Posted February 9, 2008 Up 4 Sed. I would really like your opinion.
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