JustinWolf Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 bday. right now its 12:12am... she's online which pisses me off even more. Has a "ITS TODAY!! THX EVERYONE" msg written in her nickname. I'm just closing my eyes and pretending she doesn't exist. It's hard, it's so hard. But then again she wronged me SO HAHA TAKE THAT YOU! So yeah, I don't wish her a happy bday at all! (just venting I guess.)
sedgwick Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Can't you delete her so you don't know when she's online? I haven't looked at my ex's website or photos or myspace AT ALL since he dumped me. I blocked his email and phone and myspace and IM. It's what I had to do to heal. If I was still web-stalking him, I can guarantee I'd be freaking out and crying every day.
Haohmaru Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 I agree! Block the **** out of everything. Esp if she was the one who dumped you.
realgone Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 definitely block it all. the compulsion to know what they're doing is so strong, but it never makes you feel any better, only much, much worse. you've gotta act like you don't care, live like you don't care, and then someday when you least expect it you really won't. i've been struggling with this a lot, too.
82knightrider Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Dont be bitter ,just wish her the best and move on man
Always Wrong Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 bday. right now its 12:12am... she's online which pisses me off even more. Has a "ITS TODAY!! THX EVERYONE" msg written in her nickname. I'm just closing my eyes and pretending she doesn't exist. It's hard, it's so hard. But then again she wronged me SO HAHA TAKE THAT YOU! So yeah, I don't wish her a happy bday at all! (just venting I guess.) JW, you wouldn't shoot yourself in the heart with anything would you? Because... if for no other reason... if it didn't kill you it would hurt like hell wouldn't it? Give your heart a break man. You deserve to stop hurting.
Grimreaper Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 dude just block her man,, I did the same to my ex made me feel soo much better.. And frankly I dont care what she does anymore, she can go flirt and screw around with anyone she wants its her life.... just forget her
s_n_d Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Just DELETE her. I do not agree with some people on here who are suggesting blocking her. If you delete her, you dunno when shes online and she can still contact you whenever she wants.
Author JustinWolf Posted February 8, 2008 Author Posted February 8, 2008 The thing is, it's hard just today. Otherwise, I don't really care. Everything seems fine when I think about what she did. Then I just feel better that it's over. It's just that today is sort of weird. After school, I completely forgot, haha, everything is GOOOOD!
vivrantflo Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 Just DELETE her. I do not agree with some people on here who are suggesting blocking her. If you delete her, you dunno when shes online and she can still contact you whenever she wants. He should block AND delete her... come on, this is a mental battle.. if he leaves her unblocked, he's gonna wonder when she's online, and WHY she's not messeging him. Block and delete her, and you'll feel so much better.. If she wants to get in touch with you, im sure she still has your celly number, or knows where you live.. she'll find you.
Always Wrong Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 He should block AND delete her... come on, this is a mental battle.. if he leaves her unblocked, he's gonna wonder when she's online, and WHY she's not messeging him. Block and delete her, and you'll feel so much better.. If she wants to get in touch with you, im sure she still has your celly number, or knows where you live.. she'll find you. Good advice vivrantflo. Cover both bases.
Always Wrong Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 The thing is, it's hard just today. Otherwise, I don't really care. Everything seems fine when I think about what she did. Then I just feel better that it's over. It's just that today is sort of weird. After school, I completely forgot, haha, everything is GOOOOD! Hey JW, it's good to see you're feeling better! AW
Issues & tissues Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 definitely block it all. the compulsion to know what they're doing is so strong, but it never makes you feel any better, only much, much worse. you've gotta act like you don't care, live like you don't care, and then someday when you least expect it you really won't. i've been struggling with this a lot, too. Spot on Realgone! I am going NC as of this afternoon. My ex broke up with me a month ago and he moved out a couple of weeks ago. We have seen/text/emailed/called each other a few of times since - mostly to arrange a day/time for him to come and pick up his stuff at the apartment. Today, he picks up the last of his stuff, or so he says, (although he always seems to leave something conveniently behind ). He has dropped by 3 times since moving out and every time I was a mess for at least a couple of days afterwards. NC is the kindest thing we can do for ourselves - at least until it hurts no more to see them.
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