carrot10 Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Say you have been dating a woman exclusively for 5-6 months. and the first month you couldn't get enough of each other. Now it has settled and other things come into play. What do you think if she says --" Do you still want to be with me because I would rather know now than later. I need you to tell me the truth because I would like us to be totally honest" Does that make the woman seem insecure about herself? Any thoughts?...
Jilly Bean Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Not at all. What she is saying is that she is looking for a serious commitment, or to know what your intentions are. She feels you have dated exclusively for 6 months, and she is trying to decifer if you see her as serious potential, or if she is Ms. Right Now.
norajane Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 I'd say she's picking up on some signs that you are less interested in her, and she wants you to tell her if that's happening.
HotPink Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 I agree withy Nora. It seems she is thinking it is your fault that things have changed. Is it?
wizzlebee Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 Sounds like you giving her doubts in the relationship, and she probably not sure if you want to be with her in the long run.
Lyssa Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 Say you have been dating a woman exclusively for 5-6 months. and the first month you couldn't get enough of each other. Now it has settled and other things come into play. What do you think if she says --" Do you still want to be with me because I would rather know now than later. I need you to tell me the truth because I would like us to be totally honest" Does that make the woman seem insecure about herself? Any thoughts?... Women just don't ask Qs or say things like this out of the blue. Something must have happened for her to ask you this Q. I don't see it as being insecure. She just wants to know if you're on the same page as she is in for a LTR. Are you ready for that?
Krytie TV Posted February 8, 2008 Posted February 8, 2008 My guess is that you have begun to act like your true self and are not intentionally courting her anymore. She picks up on this and probably isn't sure what to attribute the change to: diminished interest or regression to reality. And kudos to her for not wanting to play around and waste her time.
Recommended Posts