Summer_guy_uk Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Hey guys! Heres my history http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t137673/ ---------------- Short version: 2 yr relationship, i initiated break, 2 weeks later she broke up to focus on her health/mental issues. been 2 months now. ---------------- Talked to the ex on tuesday, basically said that we shouldn't keep going out as friends as it's not really good for us. I told her that we can't really be friends like she wants and to only call me if it's something important. I felt I was a bit harsh but I wanted her to be 100% on what I want. Anwyays, earlier today I bumped into her and basically said she should take this week to really relax and just look after herself, and I'll be away next week so she can think about what she really wants. She asked if I wanted her to really focus on us on let me know if theresa chance and I said I'd like that, I'd rather have closure and move on then just have a maybe. It's gotten to the point where it hurts to much to be left wondering. I don't think she'll say "let's get back together", even though secretly that's what I want. But even if she says she doesnt want to try again I guess once ive moved on I can be friends with her, she was fun to hang out with so it's not all completely lost I'm starting to think maybe I should have just stayed friendly with her and maybe something would have sparked, but maybe space is the best way.
Author Summer_guy_uk Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 I am, already dating. But it's always at the back of my mind.
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