EYECANDY000 Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 So as many of you know I dating this guy for a couple of months and we decided to be exclusive. We were together for approximately 4 months. As many as you guys we were doing a lot of arguing because I felt like he wasnt initating as much, So I posted a thread because I wanted some feedback. So, just to fast forward I had posted a thread again like 2 weeks ago because he didnt call or text me for like a week and a half. And in that thread I had asked you guys if you think I should call him to get some kind of closure, or just leave it alone. And most responses to my surprise was for me to just leave it. This had happened before where he didnt contact me for a couple of days and his excuse was that he wanted to see how long it would take me to contact him. I did really good about not contacting him, but then I broke down. I felt like I needed some kind of closure. Plus I really do care for this guy. I wanted to know why it was so hard for him to not call or text me? and why he thinks its ok to go days without talking to the person who you are involved with. So, I texted him and he texted back. When we spoke I pretty much ended the relationship and told him I was frustrated with the situation and I felt like I was on an emotional roller coaster with him. We did end on good terms and stated that we would still remain friends. I know, a lot of people say they will still remain friends but it just becomes to complicated. So, anyways an important day is coming up for me, and he wants to know if its ok if he takes me out to dinner? What do you guys think? I need feedback. Would you go out on a date with an ex and its only been two weeks since the break up. I honestly still have a lot of feelings for this guy and still want to be in a relationship with him. Ever since we broke up I have cried because I still want to be with him. I know that he just needs to change his habits.I am just afraid that we would go to dinner and I would break down and start crying and he would see how vulnerable I am. Help!
Little Shy Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Let me preface this response to your post by saying I have spent way too much time on this site today, and I wonder if my vision is getting skewed. After this, I go back to work... I don't think I read your previous threads on this guy. A couple months of back & forth, with him waiting too long for your liking to call or text you sometimes? But otherwise has he shown any other signs of major flakiness or disrespect? Because how long a guy goes between calling at the beginning, and I do think the 2 month mark is still start up, just differs so greatly for so many reasons. If you are still very much into this guy, I'd say give this date a shot. Sounds like you miss him alot, and he hasn't done anything so terrible but not call according to the time table you prefer, correct? Are you talking about Valentines Day here? Anyhow, I'd give this date a shot, but remember to stay happy, confident and light hearted. None of the tears! Be strong and have fun I say. Good luck to you.
Author EYECANDY000 Posted February 7, 2008 Author Posted February 7, 2008 Let me preface this response to your post by saying I have spent way too much time on this site today, and I wonder if my vision is getting skewed. After this, I go back to work... I don't think I read your previous threads on this guy. A couple months of back & forth, with him waiting too long for your liking to call or text you sometimes? But otherwise has he shown any other signs of major flakiness or disrespect? Because how long a guy goes between calling at the beginning, and I do think the 2 month mark is still start up, just differs so greatly for so many reasons. If you are still very much into this guy, I'd say give this date a shot. Sounds like you miss him alot, and he hasn't done anything so terrible but not call according to the time table you prefer, correct? Are you talking about Valentines Day here? Anyhow, I'd give this date a shot, but remember to stay happy, confident and light hearted. None of the tears! Be strong and have fun I say. Good luck to you. No he hasnt been disrespectdul to me at all. He just dont initiate things as much. When I brung it to his attention he started to get a lot better but then it went back to the way it started. And also to answer your question the the day that iM speaking of isnt Valentines day
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