dave3663 Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 (edited) I split up with a long term gf approximately 4-5 months ago, and have had pretty much nothing in about 5 months, no gfs, no sex, hardly any interest whatsoever! ( i did have 2 girls interested in me virtually straight after i broke up with my ex, unfortunately i wasnt ready then, but now im well and truly over my ex and the drought is going strong) Anyone any advice? I look after myself pretty well, good diet, go to the gym so im in decent shape. I wear well fitting clothes and im a pretty confident and interesting (hopefully) guy. I wasnt so bothered at first but now its getting daft, 5 months without sex, hell thats nearly half a year! Aside from that i would settle for a little bit of female interest if nothing else. Anyone any idea where im goin wrong? Im a final year university student and after being in a 2 year relationship i dont have many female friends, ive tried clubs and stuff but no luck. Basically student nights are the only chance of meeting women i have. Hopefully it will start raining soon! cheerz everyone Edited February 6, 2008 by dave3663
amaysngrace Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Anyone any advice? Yeah get some porn and flow it for yourself. Women can sense stagnant shmegum from a mile away.
Author dave3663 Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 lol, tried that already, not the same though is it!
amaysngrace Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Of course it's not the same at all but at least it keeps your juices flowing. You don't want to get backed up. Once you are content with just that someone will show up. That's how it works. Stop seeking it and then it happens.
Author dave3663 Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 i hope so, the worrying thing is its only started bothering me recently, ive not been seeking anything for the last 5 months and no luck! o well rosie red palm it is for the minute
ses623 Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 I'm in the same exact boat as you...I'm pretty content being single, even though a sense of loneliness creeps up on me sometimes. I keep myself busy all the time though. It's been about 4 months since I split up with my ex, and have had NOTHING. No sex, no GF's, not even a kiss (that I can remember anyways..lol). Like you, I have had women interested since then too. I also think I'm a good looking guy, go to the gym and in good shape, do good in school, got 2 jobs, doing ok financially, and I'm confident. Oh well, someone will come along eventually. It's frustrating to know that I haven't been laid in so long, but I just gotta be patient I guess...lol.
Author dave3663 Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 At least theres two of us. Like you say hopefully we will just have to patient. I would like to know what the women on here think about this, if anyone is prepared to spare a minute or so.
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