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Big muscles, a turn off?


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Just wondering what most of the ladies think about this.

 

I know that most ladies that workout allot can appreciate a man with big muscles, because they know how much it takes to a achieve, and all the will-power.

 

Thanks!

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I workout and definitely understand what it takes to vuild muscle.

 

I dont like a man to be too lumpy though in the muscular arena. Nice arms are a plus, but I'm really not into the whole hardbody thing. Might just be me, but it's always been a preference of mine.

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Sorry but I didn't read the other responses.

 

Big muscles are not a turn off to me. However, big egos and short men are.

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A tight, muscular butt always appeals to me! :love:

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Love em!

 

I spend a lot of time in the weight room, and train with two IFBB pros who are both getting ready for shows right now. Fabulous they are! But, I love neanderthal men. lol.

 

BUT, you HAVE to be natural. If you are juicing, have back acne, bitch tits, rhoid rage, raisin testes and impotency issues, then all the muscles in the world aren't worth the fallout.

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It is a turn off when your neck is thicker than your head.

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It is a turn off when your neck is thicker than your head.

I think the correct term is shaft.

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I wonder if it's about proportion... When I look at a woman, I don't necessarily go for just plain big boobs.... I notice whether they work in proportion with the rest of her frame and shape, and sometimes, I think a smaller endowment works much better in the overall context of a woman's shape...

 

I wonder if muscles are the same. For my frame, I think I would probably look pretty stupid bulking up like Rambo or the Rock, but I think (I hope? because I'm finally working on it...) that if I just build a little bit and tone up, that it might (?) complement my body, in the overall context...

 

Does that make sense?

 

Speaking of which: my latest guilty pleasure is watching that "Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew" Now let me say that I hate, hate, hate exploitative reality shows that titillate and draw audiences by making fools out of the participants. However, I think Drew Pinsky is a f**kin' rock star in how he works with people and does what he does, and I think this show treats the patients with decency...

 

How is this on topic? Well he seems to always wear this standard long-sleeved blue button down shirt with a tasteful tie (I think it's tasteful; what the hell do I know anyway?) In one episode, he is called into the rehab facility in the middle of the night, and walks in in jeans and a T-shirt and the first think I notice is, damn, nice arms in that T... And then he walks up to this wasted guy in a wheelchair who can barely mumble and has been causing all this trouble, and the guy looks at him and says "wow, nice arms, you look good in jeans and a T-Shirt." My thoughts exactly, Mr. Very-Wasted-Guy...

 

Anyway, I think it's all about proportion; at least that's my story... I just want to look decent enough to notice if I take my shirt off at the pool. "A slightly better version of myself."

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Eh, personally I don't like big muscles. I like men who are muscly from activity and sports rather than from lifting weights - the longer, leaner look rather than the bulk.

 

Bulk = incredible hulk.

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I like a nice firm body... but to be blown up like Mr. Universe.. no thanks.. I find that cocky. A nice 6 pack is good.. but I hate to look at all the other muscles blown up... yuck..

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I don't like guys that are bodybuilder big, but overall muscles are a turn on.

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I prefer muscular but not inflated. As the ego usually follows.

 

Muscular arms are good about 17ins around at the bicep is nearly perfect, but must have minimal veinage - that's just ew.

 

Muscular legs, but not over-defined and nice tight butt but no huge glutmax indentations, if that makes sense.

 

Everything in moderation. I can deal with a bit of belly, but not man boobs. That is also ew.

 

I think my preference is what they call greek proportions? neck=biceps=calves.

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I think most guys who spend half their lives in a gym bulking up are trying to compensate for the anatomy they cannot change.

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Personally I have a thing for soccer players and rugby players. They tend to have a nice, lean muscle mass and great muscular thighs. And fabulous endurance!

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Personally I have a thing for soccer players and rugby players. They tend to have a nice, lean muscle mass and great muscular thighs. And fabulous endurance!

 

Yeah that's my preference too. I like them tall and toned. Like you said before, athletic and got that way from being active. Not from spending hours and hours in front of a mirror admiring their own strength.

 

But if their boner matches their muscles then I'd say that could be okay too. :)

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i am a sucker for a guy with nice toned arms :love:

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Lean and mean is hawt! :love:

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There's only one muscle I'm interested in, and it better perform on-demand, 24/7.

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Alright! thanks ladies, looks like I am in the green. It seems like 75%like/25%don't I like my odds! thanks!

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Alright! thanks ladies, looks like I am in the green. It seems like 75%like/25%don't I like my odds! thanks!

Big muscles are hawt! :love:

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It is a turn off when your neck is thicker than your head.

 

:lmao:

 

I like a guy that is in shape, but I don't really like the meat heads I see at the gym. There are some hot guys that work out regulary at the gym that are in fantastic shape, but they aren't meat heads. I like a nice pair of shoulders and arms on a guy. I guess what I am trying to say that mucles aren't automatically bad or good. Depends on the guy, and how big his muscles are.

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