eighteenandone Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 I'm 18 years old. Well, I met this girl a while ago and we've been going out once a week (since I go to school out of town, and go back for the weekend) and talking alot online. Here's the problem: For the first 3 weeks, she would always msg first on MSN and ask me how I was doing or just tell me what she was up to, initiate conversations, tell me her problems etc. and when I wasn't online, she would text me alot. She would text me in the morning to wake me up and stuff This past week, after we went out on the saturday before last saturday (the date went well, nothing out of the ordinary), she stopped txting me (havent gotten a txt from her for over a week), and on MSN, I was the one saying hi now. If i don't say anything, she usually wouldn't message me anymore, and our conversations are much shorter than they were the previous 3 weeks. I'm kinda worried as to where this is going. I still have feelings for her, but I don't know if she's getting bored of me, or losing interest in me, or whatever else is going on. I desperately need some advice or help, because this has been eating away at me.
Saxis Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 She might just be wanting YOU to initiate more of the conversations, and she's backed off to test you -or- she's lost interest, got bored, found someone else or whatever. Try making contact with her, keep it light and flirty. If she still doesn't seem to be responding well, I'd just write it off and move on.
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