EYECANDY000 Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 I was dating this guy for a couple of months and we decided to be exclusive. We were together for approximately 5 months. As many as you guys we were doing a lot of arguing because I felt like he wasnt initating as much, So I posted a thread because I wanted some feedback. So, just to fast forward I had posted a thread again like 2 weeks ago because he didnt call or text me for like a week and a half. And in that thread I had asked you guys if you think I should call him to get some kind of closure, or just leave it alone. And most responses to my surprise was for me to just leave it. This had happened before where he didnt contact me for a couple of days and his excuse was that he wanted to see how long it would take me to contact him. I did really good about not contacting him, but then I broke down. I felt like I needed some kind of closure. Plus I really do care for this guy. I wanted to know why it was so hard for him to not call or text me? and why he thinks its ok to go days without talking to the person who you are involved with. So, I texted him and he texted back. When we spoke I pretty much ended the relationship and told him I was frustrated with the situation and I felt like I was on an emotional roller coaster with him. We did end on good terms and stated that we would still remain friends. I know, a lot of people say they will still remain friends but it just becomes to complicated. Weve only been broken up for 2 weeks So, anyways an important day is coming up for me, and he wants to know if its ok if he takes me out to dinner? What do you guys think? I need feedback. I honestly still have a lot of feelings for this guy and still want to be in a relationship with him. Ever since we broke up I have cried because I still want to be with him. I know that he just needs to change his habits.I am just afraid that we would go to dinner and I would break down and start crying and he would see how vulnerable I am. Help!
Haohmaru Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Firstly, girls may "rule" sometimes, when I say, and boys definitely do not, as you so eloquently put it, "drool." I say go to dinner and cry your eyes out. This will ensure that he pays. Make plans to go to a club without him afterwards and have your friends pick you up from the restaurant, leaving him there going through his pockets for nickels with which to settle the bill. Make sure to order something expensive. If you are of age (or even if not), order a really expensive wine.
Nemo Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 I say go to dinner and cry your eyes out. This will ensure that he pays. Make plans to go to a club without him afterwards and have your friends pick you up from the restaurant, leaving him there going through his pockets for nickels with which to settle the bill. Make sure to order something expensive. If you are of age (or even if not), order a really expensive wine. :lmao:
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