bex2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Hi, I am new to this forum, so I'm not sure if my post is in the right section. I really need some advice and would be grateful if you guys could help me. I have been in a relationship with my partner for a year and a half and he is a smashing bloke. Problem is I dont know how to handle the situation with his ex girlfriend. She keeps calling for silly little things trying to get my partner to go round there. The other day she called him asking if he can go round there and help her ring upAOL and get the net up and running. She is doing it all the time> I am now panicing everytime the phone rings. My partner has three wonderful kids, we all get on so well. How can I handle this one, what shall I do? PLEASE HELP!!! Thank you for reading this post and helping me
wizzlebee Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 If these kids are from him and her. She will always be in his life because of the kids.
Author bex2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 If these kids are from him and her. She will always be in his life because of the kids. Yeah, I do appriciate that as they have kids 2gether that she will always be in his life. The thing that is bugging me is that she is phoning on a regular basis (Not even about the kids) and she will keep him on the phone for ages. I have no problem her phoning if it is to do with the kids. I just dont get why she has to phone him up on a regular basis, my partner even says "I dont know why she keeps phoning and talking to me about nothing."
Florida Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Have you talked to him about it? More than just panicking? You have to really draw the line and both agree that he will say NO to any request of his time that does not have to do directly with the kids. This will never stop. Even if she doesn't get him, she wants to drive you away. Your guy has to be made to understand this. If she calls, he must tell her that he can't talk unless it's about the kids. Mention that you are there and he wants to go spend time with you. He cannot keep running every time she calls, unless he wants you to think he is still open to her. If he can't abide by these simple ground rules, I would start to question where his heart really layed.
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