calismostwanted Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 First off hi everyone.i'm new here I got so many things running through my head right now and had through the past few days, i've been with my girl for quite sometime and even got a wonderful kid together. we met through work. and quick had an attraction for each other. i've always had an anger issue that i couldn't control. never got to the point of injury. but just getting mad over the typical issues money, or something else that came up. she had giving me chances of changing. i tried maybe not as hard as i should but i felt some type of comfort knowing that she'll always be there. the whole relationship wasn't just about fighting. but she gather the bad part about it and clicked those pieces together. and to the point where i tought everything was fine until she said she couldn't go with this anymore and didn't feel the same attraction as she used to and basically didn't love me anymore. she doesn't know where she stands right now we live together. but feels like we roomies right now. and is really hurtful. i know what some of you might think i blew it. but if someone has an issue you in a relationship have to be able to work it out together through thick and thin. she had taken off her ring,engament. only thing i get is a hug. not even a kiss from her. the question about her seeing someone else is out of the picture that i know for sure. but i cant really live like this. and i need some advice. is it over. cause for some reason i just let things be right now instead of pushing it with her. she is not sure if she willing to give it another shot. but she asure she would let me know.
becauseofyou Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Perhaps you could start seeing a therapist in order to deal with your anger issues? No one should have to live with someone with a scarily short fuse so it would be great if you could get a handle on that. It would also show her that you are dedicated to fixing your issues and making your own life better, not just for yourself, but for her and your child.
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