niceconfusedgirl Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 hello a guy i have liked for a long time had recently become very touchy-feely with me. lol i was thrilled! we talked and he was always tryign to get into my conversation. after about 2 weeks, he asked me if i wanted to go to a movie with him and he got my #(i didnt ask for his). i said yes, but later on it turned out i couldnt make it (b/c i cant drive) i let him know far in advance. but now he seems distant from me. i've asked him to coffee and invited him to my party and he said nothing. its been over a week and im frustrated. why is he like this and how can i make things between us better?
Amiss Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 He is acting like a baby! He obviously feels rejected and now has a bruised ego. Are you sure you told him why you couldn't make it ? You could try one last time by apologising and saying you will make it up to him. If he refuses , let him go:cool:
vivrantflo Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 Rule No. 1 to infinity:- Don't chase boys. You don't know the guy, so to generalize like that is wrong. So you turned down the movie cause you can't drive.. can he drive?? When you accepted the movie invite, didn't you already know that you can't drive?? If I asked a woman to the movies, and she accepts, and then afterwards says that she can't go cause she cant drive.. I'd think she's looking for an excuse to back out. Especially if she accepted the invite to begin with.. I'd do exactly what Amiss said.. apologize again, and say you'll make it up to him.. if he's not responding.. forget him.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 Sorry but I kinda agree with the above poster I don't drive myself so I can sympathize with you believe me. But then again I wouldn't except unless I asked if he could pick me up or I could get a ride some how. Isn't there any public transport by you? its not the flashiest way to get around but it dose the job. That was a week excuse sorry I can see why he may be upset I say apologize and be honest and offer to reschedule if hes still open to the idea.
Replicant Posted February 9, 2008 Posted February 9, 2008 hello a guy i have liked for a long time had recently become very touchy-feely with me. lol i was thrilled! we talked and he was always tryign to get into my conversation. after about 2 weeks, he asked me if i wanted to go to a movie with him and he got my #(i didnt ask for his). i said yes, but later on it turned out i couldnt make it (b/c i cant drive) i let him know far in advance. but now he seems distant from me. i've asked him to coffee and invited him to my party and he said nothing. its been over a week and im frustrated. why is he like this and how can i make things between us better? He probably thinks you blew him off. This was supposed to be your first date and you obviously made quite an impression. If you were truly interested in this guy i think you would have made more time finding a way to commute to the movie rather than backing out of it because of not being able to drive!!
Author niceconfusedgirl Posted February 12, 2008 Author Posted February 12, 2008 the man knows i can't drive. i was afriad to ask for a ride from him. i had asked other ppl but they were busy and the bus doesnt run by the place he wanted to go. anyways, the man just turned out to be a big baby. i apologized to him again and this time he just rambled off about how he missed his ex-girlfriend and started to cry. thanks for you help though
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